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Biblical Dating Advice

Does anyone have any biblical dating advice?

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 ---becky on 7/14/07
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Who are we to judge what others do. No one knows what is right for us but God. Are we better than God when we say that whatever is wrong? Only God knows what is right and what is wrong. We are all different people and only God knows what is right for each of us.
---Charlene on 8/1/07

Make sure whomever you choose to date that you guys are equally yoked. I've been there and done that otherwise and it is very important to always put God first in everything you do.
---bessie on 7/27/07

Well,I would say that it is important to be sure that you are not unequally yoked with a nonbeliever. This is foremost. Next, the activity chosen should be Godly and not put you in a position of temptation to fornicate (as in being alone in each others residences). Keep the dating public. Bible teaches to avoid all appearences of evil. Thats all I can think of. Blessings
---jody on 7/16/07

Learn how to date Christ daily.
---Marcia on 7/16/07

Jack is correct. You won't find it in the Bible. But that doesn't mean it is wrong anymore than it is to post on blogs. Like most things, it is how we do it and the purpose of it that would make it right or wrong. If you have decided to do it the modern way(which has proven to be an absolute failure), you should set some guidelines.
---john on 7/16/07

And how can you, Jack, give biblical advice about dating, when you've never been married?
Everything you've learned is from a textbook.
Have you ever dated in your life?
---Tandie on 7/15/07

Bill. oyu've written some thought provoking comments and scripture. What comes to mind is how Christ loves the unlovely...flesh seeks what is lovely or best for ourselves, not to love sacrificially
---Christina on 7/15/07

Becky: Don't know how old you are but here is a little advice for you.
Make sure the young man knows you are a christian,first. Ask him ,is he? Never go out alone.Do group or double dating. Don't be caught in closed dark corners. Stay in open, well -lit areas on dates. Look at wholesome movies and activities. Always present yourself as a woman(teen) of God. Smile,relax,hold hands. No prolong kissing but a nice soft kiss at the end of the evening. Just a few blessed.
---Robyn on 7/15/07

"'For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same?'" (Matthew 5:46)

So, I understand Jesus wants me to love ALL people, and not be getting all in love with just some one person. My helpmate would help me to love ALL people as ourselves. This would show up in dating someone I belong with.
---Bill_bila5659 on 7/15/07

"submitting to one another in the fear of God." (Ephesians 5:21)

So, I can see that relating in God's love is with mutual submission > "in the fear of God", to me means we are prayerful together, sensing how God has us relating, ALL the time sensing for Him and sharing with Him together.
---Bill_bila5659 on 7/15/07

And I would say to be sharing with various other Christians, so we have all that different ones have to offer, and are not putting too many eggs in one basket.

If we belong together, I think, we will be obviously helping each other discover God more and love ALL other people. We will NOT be just USING each other for things we want.
---Bill_bila5659 on 7/15/07

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