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Your Accountablility Partner

How many of you here have an 'accountability partner'? What is that person's role in your life and how intrusive is it?

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Knowing you as I do, through all of these personalities, would I help you as my neighbor?
The bible tells me to love you as I love myself.
Would we become friends? I don't know.
---Cindy on 1/15/08

Gilbert is a real person from Iowa where I am a Psych hospital chaplain.
---Gilbert on 8/21/07

Yes, Andrea Marcia, it is sickening, and that's the point. I am tired of the wicked game you're playing.
---Crystal on 8/18/07

It has everything to do with this blog. Whether real or imagined, fake or fad, some of us know this person will not submit themselves to a deliverance.
---Valeerie on 8/18/07

I see you've added Gilbert to the mix.
Who really is eating Gilbert's grapes, Jerry?

Andrea Marcia Kathr, you've been doing this for a long time. I would gladly trade your 24 altered egos in for one good, tenured blogger that we could trust. This isn't going to end on this blog. But maybe the rest of you will tire of the farce. You'll at least know what you are responding to. You claim you've been everything from a catholic to a mormon to an SDA. Your answers make me feel sick, always.
---Crystal on 8/18/07

Crystal Marcia knock it off. How many IDs do you need - its sickening.
---Andrea on 8/18/07

I don't know what MPD/DID have to with this blog, but I happen to be a Pastoral Counselor and Chaplain in a Psych hospital. MPD, no such thing, maybe people fake it, but it doesn't exist. DID is exceedingly rare and honestly a lot of the time is a demonic possession.
---Gilbert on 8/18/07

To be accountable is to take responsiblity for ones actions. To explain the reasons for that action,the causes for an action,or the motive behind an action. That is all an internal process determined by the person herself. Otherwise its giving another, an intimate relationship with you that should be reserved for God and your spouse. We esteem pastors for their position,not account to them like that. It's like asking a person to forgive our sin. That's God's job.
---Darlene_1 on 8/18/07

Only the truth will set this person free.
From a child to an adult, from a woman to a man, all of these personalities need to come together.
You can't stand medicine, so the only choice you have is a deliverance, Marcia.
---Crystal on 8/18/07

There are two schools of thought, that it's all a fad or real.
But with spiritual discernment, which Susie and others have, we can see something is definitely amiss.
---Valeerie on 8/18/07

Cattle Prod24, always referring to someone else's written material which only gives information, not transformation.
This is the real "Marcia" and the 20 other personalities she borrows. It's dark.
---Crystal on 8/18/07

There are theories that Multiple Personality Disorder is all a psychological fad.
MPD does not occur naturally.
MPD is an iatrogenic (therapist induced) disorder, unknowingly created by the interaction of a therapist and patient.
Belief in MPD is in decline.
Persons who have been diagnosed with MPD are victims of bad therapy, but not of MPD itself.
---Valeerie on 8/18/07

This theory believes that a therapist of MPD/DID teaches their clients to identify different aspects of their life and perspectives where they felt different moods. The therapist gives these feelings a name, have the client revisit those feelings by recalling them by name. Reifying a memory of some kind and converting it into a 'personality'." The client's moods or feelings then appear to both the client and therapist as distinct personalitys, without either of them being aware of the process.
---Valeerie on 8/18/07

MPD practitioners note that the average person who has just been diagnosed with MPD has had a long history of involvement with the psychiatric system and had received many incorrect diagnoses in the past: schizophrenia, depression, anxiety, panic disorders, borderline personality disorder.
---Valeerie on 8/18/07


You catagorize people and put them in a box, and when you find that they can't fit into your box, you go crazy and start calling them all kinds of names. I am just a victim of your rage because I am a person that can't be put in a box. I am a spontaeneous person, I am real, sometime I hurt, sometimes I laugh, sometimes I mourn.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


I would advice you to read the book of Ecclesiasti.

I wan't you to know that you can't put people in a box. You can't assinate peoples character just because they don't fit into your box. I understand if you don't care for me, you wouldn't be the first person and you won't be the last.
---Marcia on 8/17/07

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I would challenge you to sit back and meditate on why you are a part of Christian Net. Also while at it I would also challenge you to meditate on the beatitudes.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


If you don't have a Bible, I have them for you.

Blessed are the poor in spirit,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

Blessed are they who mourn,
for they shall be comforted.

Blessed are the meek,
for they shall possess the earth.

Blessed are they who hunger and thirst for justice,
for they shall be satisfied.

Blessed are the merciful,
for they shall obtain mercy.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


((((Blessed are the pure of heart,
for they shall see God)))).

Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called sons of God.

Blessed are they who suffer persecution for justice sake,
for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


As you read about each of the beatitudes you might look into your own heart and examine your feelings towards them. Are you trying to follow each one of them? I think you will find that you need a rather humble, almost a childlike attitude towards each one of them if you are to be successful in following them. In fact Our Lord mentioned many times about how we needed to become more like children in our attitude and in our thinking towards many of the things in this life.
---Marcia on 8/17/07

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You are Correct my friend, I am only trying to bing up the Morale, here's another Joke.

Stolen Goose
---Marcia on 8/17/07

Confessor: I have stolen a fat goose from a poultry yard!
Priest: That is very wrong.
Confessor: Would you like to accept it, Father?
Priest: Certainly not- return it to the man whom you stole it from.
Confessor: But I have offered it to him and he won't have it.
Priest: In that case you may keep it yourself.
Confessor: Thank you, Father.

The Priest arrived home to find one of his geese had been stolen...
---Marcia on 8/17/07

Marcia, do you suffer with multiple personality disorder?
---Crystal on 8/17/07

Marcia, are you being tormented by demons?
---Crystal on 8/17/07

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The best accountabilty partner you could ever have is The Lord jesus Christ.He is always there 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and He does not insult you as I see many on this blog doing.
---Cynthia on 8/17/07


A minister told his congregation, "Next week I plan to preach about the sin of lying. To help you understand my sermon, I want you all to read Mark 17."
---Marcia on 8/17/07


The following Sunday, as he prepared to deliver his sermon, the minister asked for a show of hands. He wanted to know how many had read Mark 17. Every hand went up. The minister smiled and said, "Mark has only sixteen chapters. I will now proceed with my sermon on the sin of lying."

---Marcia on 8/17/07


You may have heard this one before...

A man, down on his luck, went into a church which catered to the "uppity". Spotting the man's dirty clothes a deacon, worried about the churches image, went to the man and asked him if he needed help. The man said, "I was praying and the Lord told me to come to this church."
---Marcia on 8/17/07

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The deacon suggested that the man go pray some more and possibly he might get a different answer. The next Sunday the man returned. The deacon asked, "Did you get a different answer?"
---Marcia on 8/17/07


The man replied, "Yes I did. I told the Lord that they don't want me in that church and the Lord said, 'Don't worry about it son, I've been trying to get into that church for years and haven't made it yet."

---Marcia on 8/17/07


One day God was looking down at Earth and saw all of the evil that was going on. He decided to send an angel down to Earth to check it out. So he called one of His best angels and sent the angel to Earth for a time.

When she returned she told God, yes it is bad on Earth, 95% is bad and 5% is good.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


Well, he thought for a moment and said, maybe I had better send down a second angel to get another point of view.

So God called another angel and sent her to Earth for a time too.

When the angel returned she went to God and told him yes, the Earth was in decline, 95% was bad and 5% was good.
---Marcia on 8/17/07

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God said this was not good. So He decided to E-mail the 5% that were good and He wanted to encourage them, give them a little something to help them keep going.

Do you know what that E-mail said????

You didn't get one either,.....huh?
---Marcia on 8/17/07

Wow! I didn't know so many people had problems with accountability partners. Like with anything that involves humans things go wrong. Accountablity partners are supposed to equal. I encourage young Christians to have a mentor which is diferent, but again problems have happened. The anger dripping of this blogg is horible.
---Gilbert on 8/17/07

Susie: If those jokes where to corney here's a better one.

Adam was walking around the garden of Eden feeling very lonely, so God asked him,
"What is wrong with you?"
Adam said he didn't have anyone to talk to.
God said that He was going to make Adam a companion and that it would be a woman.
---Marcia on 8/17/07


He said,
"This person will gather food for you, cook for you, and when you discover clothing she'll wash it for you. She will always agree with every decision you make. She will bear your children and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. She will not nag you and will always be the first to admit she was wrong when you've had a disagreement. She will never have a headache and will freely give you love and passion whenever you need it.
---Marcia on 8/17/07

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Adam asked God, "What will a woman like this cost?"

God replied, "An arm and a leg."

Then Adam asked, "What can I get for a rib?"
The rest is history..

by Cheryl D Palmer
---Marcia on 8/17/07

Marcia, this is the real you. But normally you save this kind of material for the SDA and John Hagee blogs. Jerry.
---Crystal on 8/17/07

My accountability partner is Jesus Christ, although sometimes I make use of His local rep.

Sometimes it can be intrusive, but usually it is for the better.
---lorra8574 on 8/16/07

love it. Thanks
---Andrea on 8/17/07

What's a matter Susie am I too immature for you? Come loosen up a little. Your too up tight.

Maybe a couple of jokes will help...

Why did the pig go into the Kitchen?


Why did the little boy throw the butter out the window?


---Marcia on 8/17/07

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I was raised in a shepherding church, but never heard of accountability partner. what I did hear of was, 'love bonding'-meaning religious codependance or 'holy spirit bound'-meaning listening, talking only to churcvh members. Other jargonistic terms were 'spirit confessor'-someone assigned to you, you must confess your daily sins. And the vile 'end-time-handmaidens.-
---MikeM on 8/17/07

Donna,thank you ,you are very kind. The only accurate guide we have to follow is the Bible,I pray I always seek God's Word and His Way as a light unto my path. God Bless.
---Darlene_1 on 8/16/07

Marcia....Careful! Your immaturity is showing. Maybe you need to get new "accountability partners" or maybe you just need to let Jesus be the Lord of your life. The Holy Spirit will guide you when you are born again.
---Susie on 8/16/07

Marcia, while wearing Prod24's hat, do your A.P.'s judge your prophetic gift?

"I am gifted in the Prophetic - "I cant stomach this false humility about not being able to say with courage that we are what we are."

God exalts the humble and humbles the proud.

That goes for ALL christians, leave the prophets alone,
---Prodigal24 on 7/2/07

You don't have any humility, Marcia.
Not only accuracy, do they check them for truth and honesty? Integrity?
---Crystal on 8/16/07

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My accountability partner is Jesus Christ, although sometimes I make use of His local rep.

Sometimes it can be intrusive, but usually it is for the better.
---lorra8574 on 8/16/07

I have just finish a short three-day study on "shepherding" and many similarities such as "accountability partner" and I believe that the Bible teaches against submitting to another human being in the line of Christian activity. A Christian has the Holy Spirit and the Holy Spirit gives knowledge and guidance. . My friends and I ask to be kept from activities that are not pleasing to God!!!
---Mima on 8/16/07

How's that for some accountability?
Also, when you are caught with your head in the cookie jar, you hurriedly type 30 more answers to wipe the silly, childish answers away. They really don't mesh with all of the same answers you've given us before. Especially about scientology, JW's, SDA's, RCC's, etc. Some are practically word for word. Names change but some of the files in your brain aren't changing.
---Francis on 8/16/07


Guess What I have over a trillion accountabilty parteners who kidnapped me!!

I need your advice...Pleeeese HELP!
---Marcia on 8/16/07

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"....I have about 20some accountability partners I have kidnapped for myself. I seek them out like a agent seeking out his mission objective. They never see me coming and I never realize at first that their the one."

Marcia....The Lord would have me say this to you. You seek out the one who will give you the answer you want to hear. Seek the Lord and HE will tell you what the answer is.
---Susie on 8/16/07

Goodness Greatious!!

Last time I checked it was not a sin to be loved by the Church.
---Marcia on 8/16/07


You get checked for Paranoia, I am not Linda Smith, I didn't even own a Computer in 2005. My Mother died in 2004 and I had no time to get on the internet. I just learned about Christian Net this June when I first got the internet.
---Marcia on 8/16/07


I respect you for your Christlike fellowship and do appreciate your sincere question.

God Bless.
---Marcia on 8/16/07

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Yeah Marcia, I remember you as Linda Smith in the beginning, also a prophet, etc. up until now as Marcia. You always were Virtue and the Proverbs Woman.

"An example would be Proverbs and the virtuous woman. In the Outer Court and its natural light, that is a book about finding a good natural wife. That's great and there is light there but that is not all the light there is.
---Linda_Smith on 9/29/05 "
---Francis on 8/15/07

All of this Marcia, all at the ripe old age of 23 and doing book reports....

"Yes there are Prophets today but most Christians dont know them or acknowledge them for a true Spokes person from the Lord Prophet comes You want to Automatiically banish him/her ....We are here among you today doing what he (Jesus) leads us to do and all Prophets dont operate in the same Calling.
---PROPHET on 10/1/05"

I remember.
---Francis on 8/15/07

"tell a trustworthy friend, not necessarily naming the man, but let someone who knows and loves you help hold you accountable. Shedding light has a way of making darkness leave.
---daphn8897 on 8/15/07"

Daphne, do you have accountability partners, too?
Does everyone need a babysitter these days?
When we die, the accountability partner cannot be held accountable for our life.
The accountability partner won't take the judgment that comes for us, either.
---Jenny on 8/15/07

The authority flows one way - down - from the pastors and leaders. This is conceivably how you are "covered" by Christ. Pastors - even teach that regularly confessing sins to an accountability partner was required to get and stay saved - not just faith in Christ. Ding ding ding!!!! Warning!

Accountability Partner - Cult

This must be the new, trendy, apostasy flavor of the day. Looks like many are biting, and falling for it.
---Ted on 8/15/07

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The reason I have so many accountability partners is because I believe in Proverbs 11:14. You know, when you trully believe in a verse of scripture it becomes more then just WORDs on a page, it becomes a part of who you are.
---Marcia on 8/15/07

I have to say whenever I browse through here, Darlene 1's responses always make sense, and touch my heart. Thank you Darlene for being the person that you are, full of wisdom and knowledge. I admire you and respect your thorough responses that are always based on scripture. God Bless you so very much sister.
---Donna on 8/15/07


Thanks for the info,

If that's what you call an High Maintenance person then I am not a High Maintenance Person.
---Marcia on 8/15/07


You choose not to take my advice, so be it.
I will agree to disagree and leave it at that. God gave me a testimony not to keep to myself but to give to all who will receive it. I understand you rejecting me is not a mark against me but a mark against the one who called me to himself.
---Marcia on 8/15/07

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Marcia...A high maintenance person is one who needs a lot of special attention and fussing over to feel successful. It is usually a person who does not want to take responsibility for their own actions and expects other people to make them feel good about themselves. This would include someone who thinks they need lots of "accountability partners" since they are not able to exert self-control.
---Susie on 8/15/07

No Marcia, you have told some really big whoppers. You tell us that you've been on these blogs for a very long time with your Marcia name. In the next breath, you're only 23 doing a book report, nice childish move, but I'm not buying it. You're Kathr4453 with all of her baggage.
---Crystal on 8/14/07

Marcia, you are a master of manipulation. It's good that we see you, because you will develop other schemes when you tire of this one, because it's fun. I don't trust your theology or you. Many have left because of you, Kathr, but you like that. 85 words never stopped you from dominating every blog here. That's why many of us feel sick at heart.
---Crystal on 8/14/07

I would gladly take one JohnT back for 20 of your contrived lives and multiple upon multiple personalities. What really is the matter with you. I know that you despise psychology/medicine, but I think you need medical attention. Your anger will increase, you'll twist off, call everyone names you're allowed to get away with. You'll come back, as some other equally obnoxious person. We'll start reading it, until we can't stomach it. This cycle will start again, you'll keep telling tall tales.
---Crystal on 8/14/07

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I understand why you have 20 accountability partners, you can't be trusted with yourself.
You can't trust yourself and I can't trust either. I certainly do not trust your religious beliefs.
---Crystal on 8/14/07

Crystal >>>

Thou Shalt not bare false witness!

You accuse me falsely, I never was nor ever will be the people you are calling me. What happen was you listened to gossip and now are responding to it. The lie is set in your mind, like a stronghold, all I'm trying to do is set you free by offering you a chance to forgive someone who has done you no harm and who has done no wrong, so that you can move on and do a better job witnessing for Christ.
---Marcia on 8/14/07

Crystal >>>

You can either take my advice or leave it. I know the truth, I know who I am, and who I have been, it is use who are confused.
---Marcia on 8/14/07

Kathr4453, with your new game face on.
How could I ever trust anything you belief in, when your mind jumps from scripture to scripture, view to view, as you did in the past. It is a bird's eye view into a mind that clearly needs more help than what the bloggers here can offer you.
---Crystal on 8/14/07

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I agree with you "The word forgive implies forget. Although the offense may never be forgotten, it should never intentionally be brought to mind if indeed forgiven".

I would be a hypocrite if I taught others about forgiveness and yet imputed unforgiveness to those who have done me no harm.
---Marcia on 8/13/07


I agree with your response "Though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after flesh: the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds, Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ"2Cor.10:3-5. I only agree because it is scriptual.
---Marcia on 8/13/07


However I don't agree with your assumption that I am cultish. That is a personal attack against me. I don't know what I said to deserve that. I think you O me an apology brother.

---Marcia on 8/13/07

the Bible says 'why be enslaved once again....although we need accountability in the body of Christ...and we are acct to Him...there has been much abuse in this system. Sexual harrassment theft etc it is full of problems and although it may help some the fact is "HURTING PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE". thats a J.Meyers quote

I have been unable to tell who are the just hate authority people or if this has actually been good in many places

Be cautious
---Andrea on 8/13/07

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When you're not putting us on, Marcia, your beliefs are holiness cultish. Your words reveal much.
---Keith on 8/13/07

Marcia, "what's wrong with our youth today" - aren't you really Kathr4453 with your new game on, all of that blah blah, I'm 23, my nickname is Chessy Kat.
---Crystal on 8/13/07


Thanks for clearing that up, I be on a watch for what you are describing.
---Marcia on 8/13/07

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