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Can I leave and remarry?
My husband is a pathological liar and abusive. I found emails from him to a man inviting him over to our home. I also found an email to another woman saying he loves her. He denies it all. There is no trust and he won't get help.

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 ---laurie on 10/11/07
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Not if you are a Christian, you can not remarry unless adultery is involved. However, God could help you to leave. God really wants His people to live in peace. It is bad when there is no trust. It is getting late I hope I have helped some. In closeing, stay in prayer, stay close to God. He will help you. Mabe your husband won't get help, but you have all the help you need, you have God. Don't take a step unless you know it's God.
---catherine on 10/17/07

I do not know how this must feel to be coming from your husband. I am married and it would be devestating to go through this. I hope you get out and get counseling and hopefully your husband will do the same.I do not know what the outcome will be but God will be there for you. Take care
---Kella3336 on 10/17/07

Fasting in the Spirit can bring an awareness of the nearness of God in my life and I have seen miracles.I have gotten answers too, while fasting. There are many forms of fasting, I have friends who could not do a total fast and we did a media block and entertainment fast for a season of 40 days and it was very powerful.
---imahoosoever on 10/16/07

Bob, this poor women has a lying and abusive husband, and your advice is to fast because that will weaken her so God can better speak to her. Can you also enlighten us as to how she should separate food deprived voices of delirium from God's guidance?
---matthew on 10/16/07

Have you not heard?
When we are weak, He is strong.
It has nothing to do with the physical realm, but fasting is spiritual when done correctly. It's not a diet and shouldn't be done in a fleshy manner. Fasting and prayer to cast out demons, move spiritual mountains to heal the sick and brokenhearted, open up the deaf ears and blind spiritual eyes....
---Bob on 10/16/07

Whisper, if fasting makes you dizzy and unable to think straight, how does that help one get clarity when praying and asking for God's guidance.

And how is fasting that produces dizziness and muddled thinking going to help someone with an abusive spouse?
---matthew on 10/16/07

Lorie, You can fast by water only, or juice only, or a liquid fast including soup. I fast with juice, for a couple of days but then get extremely dizzy, so then I have opted to just fast one or two meals then eat dinner, that way I can continue to think straight. Every one is different I have even heard of one man who fasted a few days a week with no water, and no food, but I could never do it.
---Whisper on 10/13/07

laurie, I don't know how to fast but I think I have heard somewhere that you drink but do not eat. I don't know. I am sorry.
I am praying for you.
---Darlene on 10/12/07

while I was praying recently, I thought of fasting and prayer for this type of evil. Someone tell me how to do it. I also thought of "trust in my word and be healed" while praying. I pray to God so much thru the day.
---laurie on 10/12/07

while I was praying recently, I thought of fasting and prayer for this type of evil. Will omeone tell me how to do it? I also thought of "trust in my word and be healed" while praying. I pray to God so much thru the day.
---laurie on 10/12/07

My heart goes out to you. Is there anyone you can stay with? I am concerned and will pray for you. Please take care.
---Kella3336 on 10/12/07

If he is abusive. Leave. Fasting is a very good idea but you really need to learn how to fast. Being a nurse I am telling you to find out how to fast before you do it.
---Darlene on 10/12/07

Laurie, I know that this has to be very hard on you. If you are in any physical danger, I would get out of the house. Does your husband attend Church with you? Read and meditate on 1 Corinthians 7:10-16. Always remember that every storm of our life that God allows is filtered through HIS fingers. And our anchor is our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. I would also suggest Christian counceling as well, if your husband would agree to go. If you need to talk, email me at cynth9664. God bless you both.
---Cynthia on 10/11/07

If he has been physically violent with you, and has threatened violence against you, get out and get help. If you want to save your marriage, after you get out, insist that he get individual therapy, as well as participate in marital therapy. If he is unwilling, then you have your answer. If you have proof of adultery, remarriage will be an option. BUT, I would wait a very long time and get individual therapy before considering a relationship in the future.
---Trish9863 on 10/11/07

He has threatened to punch me and on one ocassion he did push me. Nothing recent. My pastor thinks he might be of a reprobate mind because of all the lies and false professions. He lies about getting help and won't go with me. I found condoms once and he lied about them being his.
---laurie on 10/11/07

Fasting sounds like a good idea. You may pass out before he hits you again, and it won't hurt as much.

If he's physically abusing you,---leave.
---matthew on 10/11/07

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Go to your pastor and talk to him about this.He will advise you on what to do.
---Betty on 10/11/07

Is he physically abusive? Has he hit you? If so, leave and get help. Would he consider going into marital therapy with you? Are you both believers?
---Trish9863 on 10/11/07

You need to put this in God Hands and FAST for 7 days and you will have your awnsers!!! God Bless you
---Abraham on 10/11/07

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