Where Are The Good Men
How to find a loving man,who desires to be in true realtionship,not cheating just to be with me.I still crying at nights,desire so much to my man to be with me.Im praying for it,to come true as quick as possible because Im very tired of being alone,its so painfull.Im praying at God.
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---Alexandra on 10/24/07
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To Whosoever has an ear to hear?
All that is GOOD in the world will be found in the Will of the Father. But unless we have a heart to do the Will of the Father, we ourselves will not recognize the Goodness of the Will of the Father in the people & things around us.
So in your prayer to God, pray for a heart that will recognize & desire the Good Will of the Father.
Believe me, Alexandra, they (Loving Good Men) are all around you. You just need to gain a heart that will allow your eye to open and see the Goodness of the Lord in them ........and you can gain such a heart if you have ears to hear what I'm sharing.
---Shawn.M.T on 10/13/08|
Alexandra, I don't know if praying "AT" God will help you, praying to God may. But his is an area that is your personal responsibility. Your lamenting sounds like you have had some poor experiences in the past.
I would start with some self analysis of the choices of men you have made in the past. And are you looking in the right places to find the kind you really desire. Try to act and dress as attractively as possible so that the kind of men you desire will notice you.
---notlaw99 on 10/5/08|
Well there are GOOD MEN out there, I'M ONE but maybe its not your season, for the Bible says there are seasons to grow, to love, to plant, to reap, etc. And so maybe its your time to grow, grow in loving God, loving yourself for who you are and the simple and Great things God has done. Also how can you love or long for something you do not know of really?? You must first LOVE yourself before you can really LOVE someone else.
---LaPaul on 11/12/07|
Blessings to you Alexandra, I do understand how you feel, but do not settle for just anyone. One thing that I am learning from God is to be patient. I believe that God will bring someone into your life eventually. My son is 29 yerrs old and he is still single as well. He does get lonely, and I tell him the same thing I told you. PATIENCE and do not jump at the first person you meet! Also you cannot change anyone, only God can. Stay in Prayer and leave it in God's hands. He knows best. God Bless!
---Cynthia on 11/12/07|
Only God is good.
Seek God, not a man or a woman.
He can find you a mate if you surrender the desperate search.
---Michelle on 10/25/07|
same place as the good women.my first wife ran around,and my second. both proclaiming to be christians.now i dated my first wife for 2 years we were suppose to get remarried ,but she ran into a x boyftiend and now they are married.no committment anymore from anyone.
---tom2 on 10/24/07|
Even if you meet Mr Perfect, he won't stay that way. I thought I was married a man who would never do anything to hurt me because he was more concerned with serving the Lord. Then his ex-wife was in a serious accident and he spent two weeks out of state at her bedside before she died saying he was doing it for his kids. While there, he also managed to go out to eat with an old girlfriend and then had the nerve to say he didn't know how I would take it when he told me about the lunch.
---Karen on 10/24/07|
To win the love of a godly man, you have to be a godly woman. You have to be willing and able to give to the same extent that you want to receive.
---robin8683 on 10/24/07|
Alexandra, bless you. My wife and I have been married since the '60s so longtime relationships are still possible.
---John1944 on 10/24/07|
do you know that the question is vise vasal, these is the area where many people think the can change there partners, he that found a good woman has found favor from God and she that found a good man is blessed by God, which means we should just present our man or woman to God. watch and be sure he love most of all God then the love will definately radiate to you. pls dont think you can change anybody, it is God that can.
---tim on 10/24/07|
Whisper, that is quite something...I offer you did right...better to find out who they really were, by holding to your standards. A real guy will love you by wanting you to be chaste, and you find him by being how God wants > then God can attract you together with His prepared choice for you...I offer.
---Bill_bila5659 on 10/24/07|
hi alexander,i long to be in a true realtionship also,but we must learn to ne content,if you would like to chat,you can send me a msg to james5375
---jamea5375 on 10/24/07|
Alexandra: I have never met any personally, I think I dated every scoundrel imaginable. There must be a trustworthy man, but other than my dad, I never found another one. I was trying to be so clean and good in my youth, that no one would have me, and the so called Christian guys, wanted to take me down, deep into sin.
---Whisper on 10/24/07|