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Husband Out With Female

My husband took out his female coworker while I stayed home and baby sit our child. Is that right?

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 ---Tammy on 1/24/08
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First of all you don't babysit your own children. You are the mother not the babysitter. Why did you stay home? I would have went, baby and all.
---Rebecca_D on 2/9/08

No, it's not right. Mainly because you don't think it's right. It shows how self-centered your husband is at this point. The baby is not important in this case, just the fact he left you at home while he took out a female coworker is the main point. Is your marriage having problems in other avenues? It might be wise if you, either alone or with your husband seek marriage counseling. Based on what you are writing, it doesn't appear that your marriage is 100% of what it should be.
---wivv on 1/26/08

'I think there are triplets, or even quads or quins.' Yes, Alan, I think you are probably correct, clones probably.
---RitaH on 1/25/08

Well, Tammy, you seem to be saying they went out to be with each other, leaving you with your child, and he did not consider how you feel. And if this is the case, Tammy...I guess your question is rhetorical, and you want us to feel for you. I do, God bless you (o: But I suspect a lot of people get married in order to get what they want, not really in order to have each other...but to have kids, among other things. If you wanted children, you are with your child.
---Bill_bila5659 on 1/25/08

Even if some of these questions are contrieved or the person posting one does not come back, we have guest readers who can benefit (o: And those who post and leave at least may have read our answers to other people's blogs before they write a question but just leave ((o: Plus, I have been surprised by how you have helped **me** with certain comments and counsel (((o:
---Bill_bila5659 on 1/25/08

If Your hubby is going "out" in a group setting with people in office for this other womans B-day-- ok. If they were going "out" just the two of them supposedly for work related issues- (what does out mean, lunch/dinner?) either way, NOT EXCEPTABLE work issues should stay AT WORK. Married couples should not spend their leizure time apart with the opposite sex--its a recipie for disaster!!!What may start out as something innocent can turn quickly when ball and chain is not around.
---Emtp on 1/25/08

tammy,heres how it works,unless this woman is a close family member,your husband has no business being out with another woman.and I mean sister,mom,not sister in law.
---tom2 on 1/24/08

I think there are triplets, or even quads or quins.
---alan_of_UK on 1/24/08

where there is doubt, there is sin. if the doubt is in your heart, search the heart.
---dsda on 1/24/08

I've been here long enough to know that most all of these situations are trumped up, imagined and come from the fanasy world of a woman that needs an intervention. A medical/spiritual intervention.
The molly coddling is such a way of life now, that it will take a conquering army of Christians to cast out the familiar spirits.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

I believe we are on the receiving end of someone with multiple personality disorder and if that is not accepted, then it has to be a case of possession by too many familiar spirits to count. A legion of them.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

My blogger vote is for this person to receive a deliverance but it will take an army. One can put a 1000 to flight, but I don't know if there are 1000's of them or how many have made their home in/with this person.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

As far as all these traumatic life's sitations, I do believe about one out of every 10 that are presented. I do believe the lusting for business associate ones while waiting for the other shoe to drop ones.
Frankly, if my name had not been used so many times by the same person, I wouldn't have been able to see all of it so crystal clearly. But now I see the phantom of the soap opera.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

Because someone is so determined to humiliate all posters that do not agree with their never ending soap opera, tactics are used that you would normally find in a junior high. Through tricks, we are treated to behaviors that employers/people in the real world wouldn't tolerate.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

Charles Stanley has preached on this exact scenario many times. No, it is not acceptable. It doesn't prove that anything happened, but why even flirt with sin? (pun intended) Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. Sound familiar?
---Greyrider on 1/24/08

Tammy, I think you know this is NOT right. Don't you think you should have asked HIM this question? Where did he take her? Why did he go out with her? Were there other people with them? Does he realize you are hurt by this because you are MARRIED to HIM? Question him until the cows come home. If the answers are not satisfactory, tell him you two need to go to counselling TOGETHER. Get this out on the table now before it turns into something worse.
---Donna on 1/24/08

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This would depend on why it was necessary for them to be out together. Perhaps it was a meeting of many co-workers and totally innocent. Cindy, why do you think that these situations are 'trumped up'?
---RitaH on 1/24/08

Cindy, do you not believe anything that anyone asks here? You must be Mark's twin sister.
---RitaH on 1/24/08

Why did you let him do this?
---Jack on 1/24/08

Truth be known, the wife probably went out with the husband's coworker, and the husband sat home with the kids.
But, we'll never really know the truth because there are too many of these trumped up situations.
---Cindy on 1/24/08

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