My Wife Left Six Weeks Ago
My wife left me 6 weeks ago. I never hit or ran around on her, but I never gave her the love she needed. I hurt her in other ways. She has told me she that she needs time to find her heart again. Will God guide me through this?
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---Michael on 5/20/10
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Do you know and understand what it means to be saved by Jesus' Blood?
---catherine on 5/31/10|
Pray to him. Then find her and apologize.
---amand6348 on 5/28/10|
Francis: God made woman out of love toward man. And besides it was both Adam and Eve's fault. Eve wanted more knowledge so that is why she took the forbidden fruit. Then she gave Adam the fruit, Adam didn't half to take the fruit from Eve. But he did because he loved Eve. No different in today's time. Husbands are doing what they can to make and keep their wives happy. If momma ain't happy, then nobody's happy.
---Rebecca_D on 5/27/10|
Francis: God made Adam in his image, and made Eve out of Adam's rib. He made them to love eachother. God is love.
---Rebecca_D on 5/26/10
Where did Adam ever mention LOVE in relation to Eve?
Genesis 3:12 And the man said, The woman whom thou gavest [to be] with me, she gave me of the tree, and I did eat.
Last I heard Adam was blaming eve for his sin.
I am not sure LOVE has anything to do with it. After all, what were Adam's choices EVE or APE?
---francis on 5/27/10|
Francis: God made Adam in his image, and made Eve out of Adam's rib. He made them to love eachother. God is love. There is a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. God made woman to be a helpmate to the man ( her husband). What if God told Adam "this is Eve, you may marry her but you do not have to love her". Are you married Francis? If so then are u in love with your husband? If not married then how can u find that special someone if your not looking for love, or don't believe in it?
---Rebecca_D on 5/26/10|
I will post a few text on marriage, and tell me what's LOVE gotta to do with it?
Deuteronomy 25:5 If brethren dwell together, and one of them die, and have no child, the wife of the dead shall not marry without unto a stranger: her husband's brother shall go in unto her, and take her to him to wife, and perform the duty of an husband's brother unto her.
Deuteronomy 21:10 When thou goest forth to war against thine enemies, ,
Deuteronomy 21:11 And seest among the captives a beautiful woman, and hast a desire unto her, that thou wouldest have her to thy wife,
Deuteronomy 21:12 Then thou shalt bring her home to thine house, and she shall shave her head, and pare her nails,
---Francis on 5/26/10|
What's Love got to do with it?
Exodus 21:2 If thou buy an Hebrew servant, six years he shall serve: and in the seventh he shall go out free for nothing.
Exodus 21:3 If he came in by himself, he shall go out by himself: if he were married, then his wife shall go out with him.
Exodus 21:4 If his master have given him a wife, and she have born him sons or daughters, the wife and her children shall be her master's, and he shall go out by himself.
---francis on 5/26/10|
Michael, when you said you never gave her the love you should have, I can relate to that. I do not know if you are born of the Spirit or not, but when my wife left I was not. And the love I had for her was what the world calls love. You want something in return. I never thought either that I had hurt her in many ways, until she left and told me about them. To me they were not important enough for me to remember but they were important to her. She brought them all up. It wasn't until Christ came into my life that I realize my love was not true love. My wife also left but came home a year later. God did guide me all through it, and made me a better husband, and a better father. I forgot to invite Christ into my marriage when we got married.
---MarkV. on 5/26/10|
francis, it sounds like you are taking words for a Tina Turner song and making it sound like scripture...Love is not an emotion.
Love is the first fruit of the Holy Spirit. The Love of God is shed abroad within our hearts.
God is love.
Do a study on the word love and you'll be filled with it after you're done (not to say you aren't now) but geeze francis, quoting a Tina Turner song is not scriptural.
---Donna5535 on 5/25/10|
You know, I am not convinced that LOVE is a good reason to get married.
What's love but a second hand emotion!
What people need is stability, sense of security and belonging, companionship, friendship, a relationship that leads to salvation.
LOVE only gets in the way.
---francis on 5/21/10|
Micheal, God has promised that He will never leave you nor forsake you. He is as close as the mention of his name. I pray that God fills your heart, mind, & soul with His unending love. Love & faith that can move mountains. I bind the grief and release healing power that comes only through Jesus. I pray the Comforter to come & fill your heart, mind, body & soul and I pray His healing presence fills every moment of your life. In the name of Jesus, Amen.
---fay on 5/21/10|
Michael, where do you want God to guide you to? Back to her?
Because God will guide you HIS way, not yours and it sounds like you need God to heal you and pour liquid love into your being. You said, "I never gave her the love she needed."
Michael, you can't give what you don't have and it sounds like you are void of love (probably due to something that happened to you in childhood). God moves and lives in His word -study the Word of God, Pray and ask God for revelation on why you hurt her and didn't give her love and let God fill you up with Liquid Love and heal you. God Bless you!
---Donna5535 on 5/21/10|
This is when you spend time praying asking the Lord what it is that youve done wrong. Dont worry about what shes doing although I know it will be hard not to. If she is doing the same as you, God WILL bring your marriage back together if you are both willing to humble yourselves to each other and seek the forgiveness of one another.
Usually thats the farthest thing from our minds, but the answers you get from God may be exactly what your spouse is wanting to hear an apology for.
I pray that your marriage is healed brother. I know it hurts. Ive been there myself. Dont get locked into the blame game because that will destroy it all.
God bless you.
---JackB on 5/20/10|
Yes."ask and it will be given you, seek and you will find." Matthew 7:7
---Cowboy on 5/20/10|
I can only pray that God guide both of you and give you the courage to reconcile.
---Cluny on 5/20/10|