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Brother Dying Of Cancer

I am a new member. I need all the prayers I can get. My 44 yr. old baby brother is dying of bone cancer. He is home with hospice. I HURT so bad and can't turn it over. My brother Tom can pass any day now. . The pain is unbearable. Someone please help me. I can't stand all this pain.

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catherine-- You still have not explained why you think (American) Christians don't know about pain (but YOU do!)

Or is this your "ministry of condemnation" coming out. All sorts of gifts and ministries are mentioned in the Word, but never one of "condemnation"

Condemnation is literally "sending to Hell".
Rom 8:34 Who is he that condemneth? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.
Condemnation and justification are God's perogative (and he needs no flesh and blood to do it for Him)
---Donna66 on 11/29/10


Re: Prelest. I had never heard that word before. Very apropos.
---Bruce5656 on 11/28/10


She have said before that she doesn't need Scriptures, and her mentor is the familiar spirit (who claim to be the "Lord thy God") that talks to her. This spirit told her to stop going to church and stay home. This spirit also told her that she didn't sin one day, and a host of another things that contradict Scriptures.

Cluny and I have said before that her spiritual condition is called PRELEST, and she is in need of deep prayers.

But thank goodness that the Holy Spirit is revealing to others here that Catherine is under demonic possession and in need of our prayers. Praise the Lord! She needs to be deliver in the name of Jesus Christ.

In IC.XC.,
---Ignatius on 11/26/10

Catherine: Please stop what you are doing and go back and start all over again. Repent in the name of Jesus and askthe Lord to unstop your deaf ears and open your blind eyes. You are putting yourself above God! You need to read your bible and let someone mentor you. Someone who is a more mature christian. This person can be a great blessing to you. You are having very strong delusions. My heart goes out to you,dear.
---Robyn on 11/26/10


"My ministry is condemnation

Rom 14:4, 10-13 "Who art thou that judgest another man's servant? to his own master he standeth or falleth. Yea, he shall be holden up: for God is able to make him stand. But why dost thou judge thy brother? or why dost thou set at nought thy brother? for we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ. So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God. Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother's way."

Rom 8:1, "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit."
---Bruce5656 on 11/26/10

\\My ministry is condemnation.\\

And all you do is condemn yourself.

God has given US the ministry of reconciliation. 2 Corinthians 5:18
---Cluny on 11/26/10

"My ministry is condemnation. " (catherine)

That wasn't the ministry of Christ and His Holy Apostles. According to Scriptures, the thief (Satan) came to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). So now we know whose your daddy Catherine.

Repent and get Save Catherine before it is too late.

In IC.XC.,
---Ignatius on 11/26/10

My ministry is condemnation. May I suggest that if you do not want the truth, then go to all of these fakes blogs. Leave mine to be. ---catherine 11/27/10

If condemnation is your ministry, you aren't even of the new covenant and cannot be operating by the Spirit of God. 2 Corinthians 3:7-11 contrasts the differences between the two, if you care to look. Two things are obvious here:
(1) You don't read your Bible
(2) You are not led of the Spirit of God no matter how much you want everybody to think you are
---Light on 11/26/10

I saw this video about curing cancer that you might want to check out. Pearson Therapy.
---maudie on 11/26/10

Hi Catherine, I've known some others with the "gift" of condemnation, they seldom minister to people because no one will go close enough to get burned by them.
---Mary on 11/25/10

My ministry is condemnation. May I suggest that if you do not want the truth, then go to all of these fakes blogs. Leave mine to be.
---catherine on 11/25/10

Cathrine, when you speak about the Word of God in doctrines you do so well, why all the condemnations? Why do you have to say the things you do? God could not be guiding you to say such things. He brings wrath and we should never enjoy that. Sure we want the molesters to get punished but the way you go about it, it is just not right. Stay with the word of God, answer the doctrines as you know them. Your help is needed, not the condemnations. I hope I did not hurt your feelings, but I like your doctrinal answers. Have a wonderful thanks giving day.
---Mark_V. on 11/24/10

Christians, are weak, Spoiled. This is why God won't use very many, passionately. Most won't even stay in prayer. I am talking, in this country. Not in China. No, those true Christians are strong....Satan has been allowed to move in and destroy most of what our founding fathers worked so hard to give us. Christians are not standing up for the living God. I wonder how many will actually make it to heaven. Disobedience will not get you to heaven. Passivity is not pleasing to God. We had better be trying to please Him. GET OFF YOU COMFORTABLE, BUTTS. STOP THE MADNESS.
---catherine on 11/24/10

Catherine--Can you explain WHY you think "most" Christians don't know about Pain? Christians are physically tortured every day for their faith in other parts of the world. Even in this country, Christians have no special protection against disease, accident, or pain inflicted by others. I'm pretty sure they suffer as much as non-Christians.
---Donna66 on 11/23/10

I know about pain. Most Americans do not know about pain. Most Christians don't know about pain. Although they may preach about it....I know this: God is much stronger than your pain....PAIN, can either make you or break you. Don't let it break you. Good day.
---catherine on 11/23/10

the present of God is somehow defined with profoundness at this time.

The only way I have been able to express it is "the twixt of the twilight".
Two different moments-completed-at once.
True definition of Love. We live in Two different time-frames. Two different identifiers-flesh and spirit-humbled before the present of God.
May the Love of God as Father immerse you and your family-entirely.
Life is so much more understood at this moment.
-Humbled with you at this time-
God bless you and your family.
---char on 11/23/10

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Irene I will be praying for your brother you,and your family,I'm so sorry for what he,you,and the family are going through. I don't have a brother or sister but I had an Aunt and cousin I was close to and no matter if they are Christians and will be with God,it doesn't ease the pain of seeing them suffer. My Aunt died with her heart,six months later her daughter died from cancer,she too had hospice and suffered,after she died one year later her brother died of brain cancer. I would say for you to read your Bible as much as possible,pray,praise God and even listen to Gospel music. We may never stop missing our loved ones but with God's tender touch,healing love,and time the pain does ease up.
---Darlene_1 on 11/23/10

I am so sorry to hear of your pain. I have experienced many losses and it is always so difficult especially spiritually.
I will be praying to for strength for you and ur family.
---Maureen on 11/22/10

Irene--- My brother died a year ago. When he went on home hospice, he finally got medication that controlled his pain. So your pain my seem unbearable, but his probably is not.
I've learned, as a nurse (and a cancer survivor) that the one who is dying
knows it (no matter what they've been told) and usually accepts it better than anybody. This is the time to tell your brother you love him and how Jesus loves him (and what the Cross means, if he doesn't know). If he seems to sleep a lot, talk to him anyhow. If you want to apologize for something in the past do it now.(You'll feel better).

If he a Christian, give him "permission" to leave. Assure him that his family will be OK. The Lord will strengthen you.
---Donna66 on 11/22/10

All I know is if it were my brother, I would have been treating him with

20,000units + of D-3
As much Magnesium he could metabolise without it turning into a laxative.
No calcium,
2000mg of Quercetin
1000mg of Tumeric(Cercumin)
Bioflanoids (Naringen)
Milk Thistle
Grape Seeds
Vit E (Gamma Tocopherals)
And read about what ever else is out there.
But thats just me I guess.
---JOhn on 11/22/10

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they say Graviola works wonders in cancer.It is is something that comes from a tree in the rain forests of Africa, South America, and Southeast Asia. Its scientific name is Annona muricata. It is also known as cherimoya, guanabana, soursop, custard apple, and brazilian paw paw. In many countries, people use the bark, leaves, root, and fruits of this tree for traditional remedies as antirheumatism,antifungal and many others.but its active ingredients annonaceous acetogenins is known to be as phytochemicals which has been under studies for so many years..its natural-why not try?
of course aside from this our God is our great physician..prayers do works at all times.
---mj on 11/21/10

I pray that comfort and supernatural peace overwhelm all in your family. Rejoice Always and trust God's goodness. Easier said than done I know. My Mom and Dad both passed from cancer. Hope until you see His face. Know that you are loved through these tough times!
In prayer!
Your Christian Internet Family Member!
---Legends on 11/21/10

Irene: I lost my brother to pancreatic cancer last year. It is still difficult for me, as we were very close. Get the book "Outsmart Your Cancer" by Tanya ____. It might be too late for your brother, but God will bring others to you who may benefit from your research. He did for me. For you, I recommend the Loving Saviour, Jesus, Who said:

Mat 11:28-30 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me, for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
---jerry6593 on 11/21/10

Beloved. Welcome to the blogsite. My love and prayers to you and your family. I,too, lost a beloved son only two short years ago. I,too,feel your pain. Please stay close to the Lord in prayer and scripture for comfort. The greatest thing to do for your brother now is lead him to Christ. That is the most loving and kindest gift you can give anyone, now and forever. Use this prayer or something similar: Dear God come into my heart and save me. I am a sinner. I believe Jesus died, was buried and rose from the dead. Thank you for saving me. I make you my Lord and Saviour. Amen
God bless my friend.
---Robyn on 11/20/10

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C. S. Lewis said that the PRESENT doubt, pain, or anxiety is your cross. Pray, "Your will be done" about the PRESENT suffering, and strength will be granted to bear it.

Your brother has been given a great blessing. He knows he will meet God soon. You have the opportunity to pray with him and prepare him for this.
---Cluny on 11/20/10

Gina, you wrote great words of wisdom, great words of the Hope in Christ Jesus. Everything you said is so very true. For we thank our Lord in all things. For Faith endures "as seeing Him who is invisible" ( Heb. 11:27). Endures the disappoointments, the hardships, and the heart-aches of life, by recognising that all comes from the hand of Him who is too wise to err and too loving to be unkind. Not of sight or of sense, but of Faith. But when we receive all that enters our lives as from His hand, then, no matter what may be our circumstances or surroundings, we shall be enabled to say, "Thank your Lord" for faith is ever occupied with God. That is what makes us different.
---Mark_V. on 11/20/10

Irene, I'm so sorry for what's happening to your brother. Today I arrived from San Jose Ca. because my brother is dying of Cancer. His cancer is all over his body. I saw the video and his stomach is almost closed by two tumors and the liver has a big one also. He is been fed through the vains. Cancer took his right hip already. He is in much pain, but very much upbeat for someone in his condition.
What I do is keep him company and let him sleep when I see he gets sleepy, I go for a walk and then check up on him. I pray for him and tell him how much I love him. Two of his daughters have been witnessing to him about Jesus. You are not alone on this, many others are going through the same thing. I will also pray for you and family, blessings
---Mark_V. on 11/20/10

Have you tried the many natural cures for this? It may save his life!

I suggest you use the internet and do the research.

I would visit the Government NCI site which is divided in half with conventional and natural treatments. I would also check Sloan Kettering and John Hopkins the two most advance hosptital in the nation. Both offer natural treatments. Of course use google.
---John on 11/19/10

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I can't begin to express how very sorry I am. My brother died too many years ago--a sudden and violent death, it all hurts honey and we are praying for you.
---Mary on 11/19/10

I would give anything to be able to relieve you of your pain, but, I cannot.... I can pray for you... My Heavenly Father, please give Irene comfort, and your strength, each and everyday, twenty four hours a day. And I thank You, my lord. In Jesus name, Amen.
---catherine on 11/19/10

I am so sorry you are experiencing this. I will share what God did when my 40 year old brother died four years ago. I had meditated on Psalm 139 for months prior to his death, and God comforted me with the verses from that Psalm over and over again.

God will use His Word to help you cope with this grieving. Meditate on it, and cry out to Him over and over again.
---Trish on 11/19/10

I will pray for you. losing a family member is hard on everyone. However your brother isn't gone yet! God can still give him life & recover him. Always remember that. Even if he isn't cured hopefully the doctors are making him comfortable. If and when he passes he will be in no more pain,but be resting until the ressusrection!
---candice on 11/19/10

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I know your pain is unbearable. I watched my daughter pass away with brain cancer. Also my brother and my husband. No words can explain the pain and emptyness you feel. I will pray for you to have peace. God gave me pease in the midst of the storm and I mean it was a storm. God bless you.
---shira3877 on 11/19/10

Gina put things beautifully.

And remember that in the midst of your sorrow, Christ is with you.

BTW--I've been in your position. It's not the pain you should turn over. It's your BROTHER you have to give up to the Lord.
---Cluny on 11/19/10

New member:

I hurt with you. I am a 10 year cancer survivor, but did you know that cancer is really, really limited?

Cancer is so limited, It cannot corrode faith, It cannot shatter hope,It cannot kill friendships, It cannot cripple love, It cannot destroy peace, It cannot silence courage, It cannot suppress memories, It cannot conquer the spirit.

New, do you know the Lord? I know it's hard, but remember, we do not grieve like those with no hope, because our Lord took on our sin, so we will be living for eternity with our friends and family who know Him in Heaven. Jesus loves you, and He has a tendency to wrap his arms around you and show His love with some very big - if virtual - bear hugs!
---Gina on 11/19/10

Irene, I am sooo very sorry that your baby brother is dying of bone cancer. My heart goes out to you and you have my deepest prayers and throughts...I will begin to pray for you.

Unfortunately, the pain that you are feeling may be with you for a while. The Grieving process can be long and painful. Find a friend who will sit with you and cry and let you talk about your brother. I'd have you over my house, but I'm sure we live far apart.
Cry, talk to God, tell Father God how badly you hurt, then ask God to heal you. It can take years to heal from the death of a loved one, but remember ONLY GOD can go deep down inside of you and heal your pain...people can't. (((huggss))))
---Donna5535 on 11/19/10

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