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Why Hard To Find A Woman

Why is it so very extremely difficult to find the right woman for me to connect with?

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 ---franko on 11/5/12
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Yes! You are so right brother Mark v
There has to be "A Love For God & If she truly love God then she going to be a God fearing- heartfelt loving caring wife...
I believe maybe he meant this but I also agree when he said t
he word " connect" well, that's really like how they do on the " worldly chat lines" ...he may not have meant it that way.there all they interest' in connect... superficial. In JESUS Forevermore. ELENA
---ELENA on 12/9/12

Franko, maybe because you are not seeing clearly. And you cannot tell which one is right. Are you inside your house all the time? Maybe that is it. I see a lot of right woman out there. Wonderful, loving, caring woman out there. But I could only marry one. That was it. I spoke to her, she loved the Lord with all her heart, just like so many others. But this one God put in my heart was the right one for me. So I went with what God put in my path. Go out, talk to Christians, make sure they have a true love for Christ, and you will not go wrong.
---Mark_V. on 12/9/12

Q:Why is it so very extremely difficult to find the right woman for me to connect with?

A:Have you ever watched "Groundhog Day"? It was extremely difficult for the guy to find a girl who wanted him too.
Then he learned to become worth finding.
---jan4378 on 12/8/12


Men don't just meet a woman and immediately commit to a life-long marriage. I'm not sure what enters your mind when you think of the word 'connect' but I'm sure that the asker means 'getting to know the other person and finding out what they have in common etc' Unless we've known someone for many years we know little about them until we 'get to know them' and I think that the questioner means 'getting to know' a woman BEFORE committing.

No-one should rush into the commitment of marriage. It is because many do rush that we see so many divorces these days.
---Rita_H on 12/7/12

Bro.Franko, may the lord bless you.Actually, it is good advice..from the brothers WillieC. & Phill, KarenD. Brings out a great point.
A real woman of God, she will put God as the head of her life.The wonderfull thing about God His love for us is eternal,he gives us a clean slate and take your time before the lord and you may be surprize.He may send you a really devoted good christian woman who will encourage you and you both be help one to another.She may help you see the true love God has for her life in Christ.I have.been praying for you.God bless you.
---ELENA on 11/9/12

Notice that Franko only wants to "connect with" a woman. If a woman is a Christian and is living for the Lord. She doesn't want to "connect with" any man. She wants a Godly Christian man who is willing to commit to life-long marriage.
---KarenD on 11/9/12

What are your intentions?

God is working both to will and do His delight in your body and soul. If you are at odds with that, getting you to "come around" could be more important than what you may be desiring in the flesh.

It is natural to desire a spouse. It is normal.
A spouse is necessary for some. For other, singleness is ideal. Flesh can never submit to God. It is condemned to fire and destruction for its obstinacy and enmity.

Pursuing God with all your heart, soul, mind and strength will yield what is best for you. Use care in making decisions apart from that requirment.
---Phil on 11/9/12

franko (c: Tweetie Bird says, "the right woman for you evidently has not come along yet." If you are obeying God and God has His lady for you, who you belong with . . . when He brings her, He will make it clear He is committed to you two being together! (c:

And notice how Tweetie says, "let God hive you the one He desires for you." Yes, God will "hive" you with the lady He has for you > "with honey from the rock I would have satisfied you," we have in Psalm 81:16. There will be all the other honey bees, all sharing with you two in our Father's family love, in God's own honey. You will be faithful but not isolated, with you and others helping each other to love.
---willie_c: on 11/9/12

God bless your heart bru..there is always time for everything under heaven, including to love..lets continue to delight ourselves to the Lord til He gives the desires of our hearts.

be blessed overcomer!
---Nira on 11/8/12

Dear brother the right woman for you evidently has not come along yet. Please be patient and let God hive you the one He desires for you. In the meantime enjoy loving the true ladies around you.
---TweetieBird on 11/8/12

Hi franko
You have not met her yet. When you meet her everything will fall into place. Keep praying and trust God with your heart.
---pg1 on 11/8/12

Thank you, ELENA (c: I have you to help me learn how to love and to encourage me. Franko, we can have love, even here in Christianet blogs. We have love examples here to help us learn how to love. ELENA is not our only one (c: So, if you do not have a lady who is helping you learn how to love, as your helpmate, we have all our different Christian sisters we can enjoy, so we can see how a real right woman is before God gets us with one who is His choice. God will do better than we can try to do! (c:

It is good to get to know our senior Christian ladies who are much more mature than we are, and appreciate them who are more like Jesus than a wife would be, so we have example to feed on and grow to.
---willie_c: on 11/8/12

Bro.Willie praise God.he has bless you to have such wisdom you.apted to teach.the people and.not make them.feel.hurt or mad. May the God of always. By your side
Mt.5:9 blessed are the.peacemakers
for.they shall be called the sons.of God.

---ELENA on 11/7/12

You already have people to love. Be faithful in the little that you have, and God will give you more (c: And you will be satisfied, in His loving!

But if we are looking for people we can use for what we want . . . it will be hard if we are not faithfully loving any and all people the way Jesus desires (Matthew 5:46).
---willie_c: on 11/7/12

Franko, There's a free Christian singles network on here ,give it a whirl,compatability is the key!
---1st_cliff on 11/7/12

frank o , Luke 11:9 And I say unto you, Ask, and it shall be given you, seek, and ye shall find, knock, and it shall be opened unto you.

Luke 11:10 For every one that asketh receiveth, and he that seeketh findeth, and to him that knocketh it shall be opened.

John 14:14-16 If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it.If ye love me, keep my commandments.
---J_Marc on 11/6/12

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i am guessing but you are probably trying to hard and thus making an idol of it or putting to much expectations on it.
---Scott1 on 11/6/12

Maybe God wants you all to Himself.

Don't expect marriage to make you happy. Haven't you noticed all the posting, mostly from women, who complain about their spouses and how miserable they are?

Glory to Jesus Christ!
---Cluny on 11/6/12

Franko...Without knowing more about you,it would be fruitless to answer. Are you single and never married? Are you divorced? Are you widowed? Give us more information, please.
---KarenD on 11/6/12

Hi, just a suggestion, not a criticism: are you the right kind of man the right woman would want to be with? Ask God, He'll let you know and may He bless you. :)
---Mary on 11/6/12

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amen,as long the womanis not totally commited to jesus christ , it reallyhard for the man to find a lady with a personal relation to Christ.
---rosalinda on 11/6/12

Brother,best take it to our heavenly father and let your need for a wife be known for the word says take all your cares to him for he cares for you.In Genesis know was not good to be alone.1Pet.5:7. Gen2:18.
Will be praying brother for you,may the lord bless you and smile upon you and send that special woman. Into.your path. Love of JESUS!
---ELENA on 11/6/12

We don't know what we really have until we get married!
---pat on 11/5/12

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