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Husband Hangs With Others

Husband says he loves everyone refuses to defend me when someone has done me very wrong. Anyone that ever attacked me he continues to stay in touch with behind my back. Married 40 years. Ive had some pretty mean things happen and he still wont apologize for staying in touch behind my back. It hurts.

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 ---Liz on 10/13/20
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KarenD, or it could be you scared her off right out of the cage. its true some people post questions that are nonsense, and actually rude, like the post from anonymous who's question was a real put down and insult to women today.

I think we ladies would all feel the same if someone in your circle stabbed you in the back, as does happen, and your best friend said nothing and stayed friends with the backstabber behind your back. Honesty would say...gee, I still like Linda, so I'm gonna stay out of it. Cowards and two faced friends would be deceitful. Most BFF's would stay loyal to their BF and even call the troublemaker backstabber out. Husbands are our very BFF. MORE than just our best friends forever.
---kathr4453 on 10/18/20

This happens a lot on here. New people post questions but don't know how to get back to their questions. It appears that very few people are even posting on this site anymore.
---KarenD on 10/17/20

KarenD, yes, why? It's not about me or you . And I see nothing in Liz's question that would indicate she's consumed with jealousy. I see betrayal. There are many women who are not well so to speak (in an emotional /mental way where their husbands are extremely protective . I guess they took their vows seriously..."in sickness and in health".

Liz, can you give us more info so others don't make up false accusations, that only reinforce your feelings of betrayal of others who jump to conclusions making you the bad guy. It shouldn't happen here for you again.
---kathr4453 on 10/17/20

Kathr4453...Are you married?
---KarenD on 10/17/20

KarenD, you have no proof she wants total control of her husband. Projecting anothers shortcomings onto everyone is wrong. No one here really knows all the facts at hand. However, I believe Husbands are to care for their wives as the weaker vessel. Even if Liz has other issues, it's still her husbands responsibility to have her back no matter what.

I also know men who have no respect for their wives because they really don't respect women in general.
---kathr4453 on 10/17/20

Kathr4453...You don't know that she is the victim. I have seen many women who want total control in their household. They try to alienate anyone who is close to their husband.
---KarenD on 10/16/20

Wow, victim blaming.

The answer is, many men, not all are totally oblivious to the idea of defending their wife, and having her back no matter what..even if she is wrong. That's what husbands are suppose to do.

Some men, and women are simply insecure and need everyone to love them, even if it is offensive to those who aren't so needy.
---kathr4453 on 10/16/20

Why do you have so many conflicts? Maybe your husband thinks you cause the problems.
---KarenD on 10/13/20

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