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Jealous I Am Close To Husband
  
Ed,
I know it might be hard, but for the sake of your friendship with her husband, you just have to keep treating her with love and kindness. I believe in time, she will come to trust you and accept you. Maybe you could also invite her to do things with you and her husband. Like, play a card or board game (at her house, where she feels safe.)All three of you could go to a state park, walk some trails, you know things like that. I know it sounds cheesy, but you have to show her you're not the enemy. I hope this made sense, I tend to ramble.


Should I Leave Exhusband Alone
  
Is "we" you and your kids? How long ago did you break up?
It sounds like he is very hurt, it may be wise to give him some space for a while. I would still be pleasant with him, smile when you see him, treat him as you would any other co-worker. He may come around, he may not. But, I don't think it would be wise to act as he does. Also, if you do have children, Is he seeing them? They should be your first priority. I wish you the best.


Brother Just Proposed - Is It God
  
You'll have to ask God. No one can answer that except Him.


I Don't Want To Eat Food
  
Is it warm where you live? It may be the heat. Some people have problems eating when it's hot. I do, that's why I thought I would ask. Either way, I agree with the other reply's, you should see your doctor.


Blessing If You Win At Gambling
  
The way I understand it is... If you gamble or play the lottery, you are putting your trust for a blessing in these worldly things. Therefore not putting your trust in Him for your blessings. It also opens the door to the enemy. There is no promise that a bet here or there won't lead you down a road to where it becomes a problem. In my eyes, NO amount of money is worth the risk of taking my focus off God.


Can My Husband Be Saved Again
  
I am of the belief that once saved always saved. I think at one point we have all strayed from our Lord. I mean we are not perfect but made of only flesh. I think if/when one does come back to Christ, then you could re-dedicate your life to Him.


Give Daughter Back To Abuser
  
You need to protect your daughter. She is your priority, not some loser who claims to have repented. Why would you risk MORE damage to your daughter? Why would you even consider taking the side of a molester over your child? This may sound harsh, I want to get my point across clearly.


My Wife Is Still Having Affairs
  
First you should pray about it. Then you should wait and find out where God is leading you. Maybe she has a sex addiction or maybe she has no respect for your marriage. You'll just have to go where you're lead.


Catholic Mom Says Stay Away
  
Lisa,
I'm not going to debate this with you. I pray that you get closure. I pray that you find peace. I pray that you heal.
With love in Christ,
Becky S


Unpatriotic Male Working In Asia
  
I totally agree with you Madison. Doug, you are doing what God has called on you to do. Keep at it. The right woman will come. As you listened for His voice to tell you where your work is, listen for His voice to tell you who your wife will be. God bless!


Should Spankings Be Illegal
  
I have never really been against spanking. However, I think it should be a last resort. I will only spank my children (I would NEVER spank someone else's children. Not even my brothers' kids.-I like being the good aunt :O) ) if they put themselves in danger. ie running away from me in a parking lot, trying to put something in an electrical outlet, unbuckling their seatbelts. I think it is more effective if you use it as a "ok, this is one thing where you're not getting a second chance" type of thing.


Should I Leave Exhusband Alone
  
Is "we" you and your kids? How long ago did you break up?
It sounds like he is very hurt, it may be wise to give him some space for a while. I would still be pleasant with him, smile when you see him, treat him as you would any other co-worker. He may come around, he may not. But, I don't think it would be wise to act as he does. Also, if you do have children, Is he seeing them? They should be your first priority. I wish you the best.


Spiritual Housecleaning Good
  
I totally agree with you. Awhile back I bought "Practical Magic" (I think I only bought it because it was on sale) Anyway, I was unpacking the shopping bags when I got home and I thought I would sit down and watch it. I unwrapped it, opened the DVD player, put it in, felt the Holy Spirit saying "what do you think YOU are doing?". So, I don't think I even got thru the previews. I took it out and threw it away. My kids were flabbergasted. (at the loss of money, not the loss of the movie) They said "What are you doing?????" I said, "The right thing."



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