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Feel Empty Not Conceiving
  
Your adopted son is now flesh of your flesh...you adopted him as your own so never feel empty....my late husband and I wanted children in the worse way and when we couldn't biologically give birth we gave adoptive birth to 3 special needs children who we adopted...they became ours and seeing our names on their birth certificates made us feel very blessed....you are still 100% even if you never gave actual birth...in fact, we adoptive mothers are more blessed than if we actually gave birth! We were chosen!


Leah And Frank Got Married
  
CONGRATULATIONS! I know some say that these websites are not the place to meet someone but just like you I intend to prove them wrong...am pursueing a relationship now with someone I met on this website and we're taking things one day at a time to see just where God is leading us....with God anything is impossible for those who are skeptics...even internet romance!


Tell Someone Not Interested
  
Try being honest....there is just no other way! Pray first and ask God to give you wisdom and the right words so that you are not hurtful when telling someone you're just not interested and then graciously let the person know....I've had men tell me very bluntly they aren't interested when a simple Christian email or phone call would have sufficed!


My Husband And I Fight
  
Now you need help????? Sounds like you needed help before you got married...I strongly suggest that you both seek counseling as soon as possible as your son will hear the fighting and believe me, it will affect him as he will grow up thinking this is a normal environment when it isn't...I also suggest you seek the counsel of your Pastor and spiritual leaders and friends as well...


Christians Marry Muslims
  
Why would someone who claims to love the Lord and accepts Jesus Christ into their heart and lives want to marry someone who doesn't even believe that Jesus is God? That makes absolutely no sense to me....marrying someone who is also predjusticed against other races is totally contrary to Scripture so if that is what you're thinking of doing then I would sit down and start reading what the Bible says, my friend!


Concieved A Baby By Dating
  
First of all...what is a x-tian??? That is a new one for me and if that means Christian then first of all you need to keep Christ in Christian because without Him you're nothing.....I agree with the Moderator...how do you conceive by dating? Both you and the father of your child need to do some serious praying and seek counseling as the child is always the one who suffers....country and denomination doesn't matter here as a child was born regardless of what country or denomination you come from....


Christians Think They Are Better
  
I often thought of the same thing...when my late husband and I attended Seminary there were a lot of Christians who thought they were better than anyone else...many times I had to remind them to get their noses out of the skies and back down here to earth and get real and then reminded them that even on the very best of days that we are just sinners saved by Grace and the same holds true today...


Any Thoughts On Cremation
  
I see nothing wrong with cremation...after we die the soul isn't there anyway and while we will have new glorified bodies what difference does it make? I had my late husband cremated and I plan to be cremated as well and we both have cremation plots at a cemetery....he wanted body parts donated at the time of his death and I am having the same thing done so are we destroying the body as well? I would say go ahead and make your plans...


Too Much Christian Hypocrisy
  
Jerry.....if the church is full of hypocrites then why are you tithing or where are you sending the tithes to? If you're sending the tithes to a church then doesn't that make you a hypocrite as well? I do agree that the church is full of hypocritcal people and I'd rather spend my time with true unsaved friends then to mingle with a bunch of hypocrites who treat me like dirt outside of the church building....God truly knows their hearts...


Concieved A Baby By Dating
  
First of all...what is a x-tian??? That is a new one for me and if that means Christian then first of all you need to keep Christ in Christian because without Him you're nothing.....I agree with the Moderator...how do you conceive by dating? Both you and the father of your child need to do some serious praying and seek counseling as the child is always the one who suffers....country and denomination doesn't matter here as a child was born regardless of what country or denomination you come from....


Should She Date A Disabled Man
  
WHAT IS WRONG WITH A DISABLED PERSON? I get angry when people tell me I shouldn't go out with a disabled person...God created them too and in fact made them even more special! Disabled people have a more caring, loving and sensitive spirit than those who are not handicapped....I am profoundly deaf...does that make me someone who is unworthy of being loved or dated? I think not! Please tell you friend to go for it! Send me a mail if you'd like....I will surely encourage her in any way I can!


Feel Empty Not Conceiving
  
Your adopted son is now flesh of your flesh...you adopted him as your own so never feel empty....my late husband and I wanted children in the worse way and when we couldn't biologically give birth we gave adoptive birth to 3 special needs children who we adopted...they became ours and seeing our names on their birth certificates made us feel very blessed....you are still 100% even if you never gave actual birth...in fact, we adoptive mothers are more blessed than if we actually gave birth! We were chosen!


Sick People Have No Faith In God
  
I had a pastor tell us that years ago...then he told my husband and I that he would never allow us to go to Seminary to go into the ministry because we were overweight and would be a disgrace to the Lord....needless to say we left that church as he stole our freedom in Christ...we did go to Seminary even though since then my husband went Home to be with Jesus...but NO pastor has the right to tell you false things like he is telling you...find a good Bible believing church.....


Allow Kids To Trick Or Treat
  
Halloween is definitely a demonic holiday (I don't even consider it a holiday) and while my 3 children were growing up we never allowed them to go trick or treating...in the fall we had a Harvest Fest and the neighborhood children (we were seminary students) came and they all dressed as Bible characters only and we had fun but never did we allow our children to partake of anything with Halloween..Christians need to be careful about letting their children get involved with this satanic day..


Husband Has Bad Mood Swings
  
LEAVE the situation NOW....I was in a situation where the verbal abuse turned into emotional abuse and your children don't need to hear him....pray for him and tell him that you refuse to put up with his anger and abuse any longer....then get in touch wih a crisis center to seek safe refuge and get counseling...you owe it to your little girl...God does NOT expect His children to be abused so you need to do what is best for yourself and your children now....you are in my prayers!


Leave Your Spouse For Abuse
  
I agree with Madison....I encourage victims of spousal abuse to leave the situation and never return to the marriage...I have been a victim of various types of abuse and I would rather have my life than have to worry every night whether I was going to make it through the night...God loves His children and He certainly doesn't want to see His children bodily harmed because of an abusive spouse...prayer is needed yes, but I would go as far as divorcing the spouse as well is there is no change...


How To Avoid Divorce
  
Pray...Pray...Pray your way through every day in every aspect of your marriage...I was married for 20 WONDERFUL years and divorce was never an option for us in any shape or form....I would still be happily married if God had not called him Home....start and end each and every day saturated in prayer and grow together in His Word....God is your only defense in this imperfect world!


My Husband And I Fight
  
Now you need help????? Sounds like you needed help before you got married...I strongly suggest that you both seek counseling as soon as possible as your son will hear the fighting and believe me, it will affect him as he will grow up thinking this is a normal environment when it isn't...I also suggest you seek the counsel of your Pastor and spiritual leaders and friends as well...



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