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Are Wedding Vows Biblical
  
I have asked myself the same question and the Bible answers I find are Jesus' words, Again, you have heard that it was said to the people long ago, Do not break your oath, but fulfill to the Lord the vows you have made. But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all." (Matthew 5:33-4) "It is better not to marry." (Matthew 19:10) "It is good not to marry." (1 Corinthians 7:1) More, I doubt that Adam and Eve ever exchanged vows, yet they are pronounced ONE, and 1 Corinthians 6:16 reaffirms this. Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, The two will become one flesh. Wedding vows are not Biblical, but arranged marriages are:)


Should I End My Marriage
  
YES. To end your marriage is better as I am in like circumstances and there is no new creation in Christ and no improvement and it has exacted a toll. Otherwise, the Bible solution is to win your husband by becoming submissive to him and thus win his love. 1 Peter 3:6 like Sarah, who obeyed Abraham and called him her lord. You are her daughters if you do what is right and do not give way to fear.


Biblical To Remarry
  
You are right that it is biblically wrong to divorce your husband and biblically wrong to marry another man after divorcing your husband. It would be adultery for both you and the man you marry according to the Bible. ALL SIN AND FALL FROM THE GRACE OF GOD. Jesus is a better husband than another man. Biblically, you must be OPEN to return to your husband. Divorce is better than murder and divorce is better than abuse. I am stuck in a bad marriage with an abusive wife. Not me or my children like my wife. That's why Matthew 19:10 says it is better not to marry and 1 Corinthians 7 says it is good for a man not to touch a woman and a widow will be happier to REMAIN a widow. Christian marriages are no better than non-christian.


Men Of Adultery
  
A response to Rita. You write that men do not get mention and do not get punished or humiliated. Here are two Bible stories of rape and women being forced in the Bible. Both instances, these named men, are murdered for what they had done even though ONE wished to marry the victim girl most eagerly. Genesis 34, Dina is defiled by Shechem and Shechem and all the men of his town are murdered by Dina's brothers. 2 Samuel 13, Amnon defiles Tamar and Tamar's brother Absalom then kills his half brother Amnon for raping his sister. They were most severely punished for something that God instead commands marriage without divorce. Do you find their punishment fair? Tamar wanted marriage as solution to Amnon's want.


God Picked Your Mate
  
ABSOLUTELY NOT.


Single Dads Are Viewed
  
I found that attending different churches without my wife and without my children, churches did not care about me, but once the family appears, then churches have much more interest.


Why Don't People Read The Bible
  
Yes, the Bible is a relational guidebook to all relationships covering all manner of topics including right and wrong, different sins and different instructions and a persons relationship with God and Christ and a persons relationship with a variety of people and a persons relationship with animals and the planet. I do not find the Bible is given much significance by people, not even in church and not even in christian companies. People don't want to read what they don't want to follow.


Pay Child Support
  
If you aren't living with another man and haven't married someone else, since you write "children's father" indicating more than one child and that you have "forgiven" him, then why don't you invite him back into your (plural) lives or return to him? Then the child support matter is no longer a matter.


No Fear Of Death
  
If you have no fear of death, then you can go to the worst places.


How To Find A Christian Man
  
You ask, "What does a Christian woman do? Do I look for a married man? Biblically there is nothing wrong with a male having more than one female and such is a Bible right "as it is written" A woman is bound to her husband as long as he lives. But if her husband dies, she is FREE TO MARRY ANYONE SHE WISHES, but he must belong to the Lord. (1 Cor 7:39) and
This is what the Lord commands for Zelophehads daughters: THEY MAY MARRY ANYONE THEY PLEASE as long as they marry within their fathers tribal clan. (Numbers 36:6) There is NO COMMAND FROM THE LORD saying a woman cannot marry a married man. At that time the kingdom of heaven will be like ten virgins who took their lamps and went out to meet the bridegroom." (Mt 25:1)


My Wife Tricked Me Into Marriage
  
My wife tricked me into marriage as well. In fact, I do not know that ours is a valid marriage as under Philippine Law, 5 weeks of intensive pre-marriage counseling is required, but her family was false about this too to press me into marriage my first visit. Similarily, Jacob was tricked into marriage and received a woman other than promised. (Genesis 29) I hate life every day because of marriage. I have lost millions. My wife is a tyrannt. I spent a day in jail for the first time I held her in self-defense, and seven months I did not see my kids. Prayer has not done any good. Pastors have not helped. Divorce her. You'll be happier. I'm a fool staying in a wicked marriage. I should have divorced long ago. There is no happiness.


How Is Sin Passed
  
Some teach the doctrine of "Original Sin".

Psalm 51:5 Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.

Genesis 6:5 The Lord saw how great the wickedness of the human race had become on the earth, and that every inclination of the thoughts of the human heart was only evil all the time.


How To Tell My Husband No
  
Amazing! I didn't know the blog was so old. Thanks for pointing out a long thread.


Are There Good Man And Women
  
Why do you call me good? Jesus answered. No one is goodexcept God alone."
Mark 10:18 and Luke 18:19

"while I was still searching but not finding I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all." Ecclesiastes 7:28

Ruth 3:10 The Lord bless you, my daughter, he replied. This kindness is greater than that which you showed earlier: You have not run after the younger men, whether rich or poor."


Tithe To A Family Member
  
The giving of alms is separate from tithing.


Is Gambling Unbiblical
  
I think the destruction is already there.

Ecclesiastes 10:19 A feast is made for laughter, wine makes life merry, and money is the answer for everything.

1 Timothy 6:10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs.


Ecclesiastes 9:11 I have seen something else under the sun: The race is not to the swift or the battle to the strong, nor does food come to the wise or wealth to the brilliant or favor to the learned, but time and chance happen to them all.


How To Tell My Husband No
  
Did you get your question answered, or do you want more Bible answers? Do you care to give more information to be more specific?


Know That God Exists
  
Everything is by design. It is not accidental. There is "Intelligent Design" and there is an "Intelligent Designer".

Psalm 14:1 The fool says in his heart, There is no God.

Psalm 53:1 The fool says in his heart, There is no God.

Job 10:10-12 Did you not pour me out like milk and curdle me like cheese, clothe me with skin and flesh and knit me together with bones and sinews? You gave me life and showed me kindness,and in your providence watched over my spirit.

Isaiah 40:22 He sits enthroned above the circle of the earth, and its people are like grasshoppers. He stretches out the heavens like a canopy, and spreads them out like a tent to live in.



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