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Have You Dating Over The Net
  
I used to rely solely on websites, but got really tired of it because the women would use fake photographs and would play too many games. In my experience, it is best to just approach them and strike up a conversation. I used to have approach anxiety real bad, so I was alone for years. But it got to the point where I hit rock bottom and refused to be afraid.

I actually had the good fortune of learning how to meet women from one of the top dating coaches. His teachings have changed my perspective on meeting women. My point is, is if you wish to meet the kind of person you desire, you need to step out of your comfort zone and take the risk. There is simply no other way.


Not Good For A Man To Be Alone
  
Marriage is a big committment. Be careful about rushing into it. My advise is not to assume that the first person you meet is the one for you. There is the term called "one-itus." That is where one becomes needy and they think that person is the one. I would recommend meeting other people and getting to know them. There is nothing worse that marrying someone and then finally that person who is more compatible comes along. In my opinion, that is one factor that leads to infidelity.


Burger King Is Selling Beer
  
In Germany, the gas stations on the Autobann sell it from coin-op vending machines along with the Coke. No ID required!

That is very interesting considering that the Autobahn has virtually no speed limit and very few fatalities. Why is that? Maybe it's because Europeans have a great deal more common sense than Americans. We can learn a lot from the Germans and their efficient ways.


Click Here For Star Wars Blog
  
Read the book, "Philosophy and Star Wars." It is very imformative and even has a chapter on how Christianity parallels with the Star Wars saga.


Where Is My Future Husband
  
So what to christian singles do while they wait on God
---carole on 2/2/10
That's a very good question, Carole. I ask myself the same question. Unfortunately, I don't know the answer. Hopefully, someone out there has a good answer.


Is Scott Roeder A Hero
  
No, he is not a hero. Who is he, or anyone at that matter, to determine who should live or die?


My Wife Is Verbally Abusive
  
That's good stuff, Norma. I am pleased to hear that your self-esteem has risen tremendously and that you were able to communicate to your mother how she made you feel. Hopefully, things have worked out between you and your husband. If not, then I wish you well on your next relationship. Seeing a Christian Counselor was a wise idea. I should do the same. Maybe it will help me a great deal.


Where Is My Future Husband
  
Carol, don't feel so bad. I am 41 and have yet to meet a good woman. It is very difficult for me to find women and I am a very attractive and well-built man. It is getting to the point to where I am about ready to give up on finding somebody special. These past 20 years have been a nightmare and being alone has cost me dearly in everyway you could imagine. It's interesting how God helps others find someone immediately and, yet, many have to wait years.


Burger King Is Selling Beer
  
Last I heard, the legal drinking age in this country is 21. So I don't think minors will be able to buy beer at BK. If that happens, then that particular franchise will be shut down. I don't see it as a problem. It's no different than 7-11 selling alcohol. Besides, whoppers and beer just don't go well together.


My Wife Is Verbally Abusive
  
I feel for you, brother. I got married in 2002. She was at times verbally abusive. It got to the point where I was afraid to speak for fear that she would just go off on me. I complimented her by telling her she looked very pretty. Most women would appreciate this. She responded by saying, "I already know I look good. I don't need you telling me that." I felt hurt and pissed off.

We are divorced. I have no regrets. A marriage shouldn't feel like a death sentence. Rest assured, I have dated many women since my divorce. There is a mutual respect and I make that known at the beginning of a relationship.

You don't have to take that abuse from your wife. As long as you are cool to her, she should recipricate.


Is Praying In Public Wrong
  
That reminds me of an episode of Curb Your Enthusiasm where Larry David invites a new friend to a dinner party. The friend sits in Larry's chair and then says grace. Larry is dismayed by this. Of course, the friend does apologize since Larry was the man of the house and he felt he over-stepped his bounds.


Dressing For Church Important
  
Here's the way I look at it. If one is willing to go all out and dress their best for a party or a nightclub, then they should give God their best when they attend services. To do any different would be disrespectful.


Christians Play Secular Music
  
I am a Christian and I listen to a lot of secular music. I like music from Green Day to Pink Floyd and Metallica. When I told my minister at my previous church that, he practically jumped out of his skin. But many of the people who responded are right, be careful of some of the music's lyrics. They can poison your mind.

Before speaking maliciously about a song, I read up on what the composer had in mind when he/she wrote it. What message are they conveying? Many of them are making either a political or social statement. Green Day's American Idiot, for example, depicts life for a young man in a post 9/11 world and how the media and government are causing "a new kind of tension all across the 'alien nation.'"


37 Year Old Man Marry 20 Year Old
  
That gives me hope that I could find a younger woman. I am 41, but look very good for my age. I see some women in their 30s who look bad. But then I see woman older than I am and they still look beautiful. In fact, I have seen some that put girls 20 years their junior to shame.

But one's physical age shouldn't be the issue. The mental age is the issue at hand. It's is important to ask yourself if the two of you are compatible and if she is mature enough to be with an older man. So I say go for it if you feel that the two of you are right for each other.


Halloween Costumes For Christians
  
Personally, I don't see the harm in Halloween. It's just a holiday where people could just unwind. However, I have seen people take things too far. As a resident of Las Vegas, and one who works in a casino, I see women who wear very skimpy costumes. I feel ashamed to admit this, but I kind of like it. If I had a girlfriend, I would not discourage her from dressing sexy for that one night of the year. People need to loosen up and not judge every single thing people do negatively.


God Will Bring My Wife To Me
  
I am beginning to believe that God is going out of His way to keep me from finding a good woman. Everybody keeps saying to wait on the Lord. Well, it has been too long. So I have decided to rely solely on myself to get this done and will read books by experts to learn to be a good pick-up artist.


Was Christ Sinless
  
Jesus was absolutely sin-less since He is
indeed God Himself. If He were a sinner He
could not have offered Himself up as the
perfect, spotless Lamb of God.
It was for this reason that our Heavenly
Father accepted Him as our Savior and Redeemer. To suggest that He was not sin-less is blasphemy.

Thank you and God bless you, Lewis


Jesus Made Wine Or Grape Juice
  
The word used in the Greek to tell of this incident specifically means fermented fruit of the vine. And Solomon was quoted out of text. There are too many professing Christians who prefer to cling to the own particular church's doctrine than to understand the truth as the bible states it. Yes, the wine had alcohol content! Study the traditions of wedding at that time and you'll understand why they asked the host why he saved the best for last when tradition would have him serve the best wine first.


Will God Bless My Affair
  
Unless you're reading something other than the Bible, you should already know that extramarital relationships is a violation of God's spiritual law as well as the old written code, and God absolutely does NOT bless sinful actions. You must end the relationship, try to mend with your wife, and then repentance may be available to you, but remember that God looks on the heart. Sounds to me like you're looking for someone to take your side and justify your actions, and not really wanting to do what's right.



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