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My Fiancee Has A Male Friend
It has more to do with weather your fiancee is Left Brain or Right brain dominate. Most likely she is Left brain dominate. In a relationship we are naturally inclined to seek out our opposite.

The core values of a Left brain dominate person are Career/Security, Hobbies/Free time, Family/Friends & Relationship/Sex in that order. A Right brain dominate persons core vales are opposite. Relationship/Sex, Family/Friends, Hobbies/Free time & Career/Security in that order.

A left brain dominate person doesn't have a problem putting friends and family over their relationship.

If you want to know more about these concepts check out Dr. John Kappas' book Relationship Strategies. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

Listen To Worldly Music
Having worked with Jr. Hi. students for over 18 years I must have been asked this question by parents and students a million times.

Here is the bottom line, music in itself is neutral. Basically there are no good or bad notes, it would be like saying that a C sharp is bad and a B flat is good.

However music is more than notes, it's also made up of words and messages. Take away the notes and what do you have left?

Now compare these words and messages to 1 Corinthians 10:31, is there any conflict? If so guard yourself, if not enjoy the music. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

Why Is Being Married Difficult
I was married for 25 years, it was the hardest thing I have ever done. Until my ex went through a mid-life crisis (Important to note that most people that go through a Mid-life crisis don't recognize that they are going through one.)

For the first few years I would beat up on myself until I read the book Relationship Strategies by Dr. John Kappas. Dr. Kappas explains Left Brian vs. Right brain dominance, baseline sexuality and the difference between the Honeymoon and the trauma stages of a relationship.

I would highly recommend this book to both married couples and single people. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

Seminary Makes Non Christians
People go to Bible college's and seminaries to study the Bible. When people are told that the Bible is the inspired, infallible word of God they only set themselves up for failure and disapointment.

I spent two years in one of the most prestigious Bible Colleges in American only to come out with more questions than I came in with and most of my original questions couldn't be answered. Later I received my Masters in Early Church History.

So what did I do? I prayed "God I believe in You!" and I went back to the basics that God Loves me and that Jesus died for my sins. Any questions?

Stick to the basics and don't get tied up in all the Theological rhetoric. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

47 And Still Single
Many people believe that God is in complete control of their lives at all times when He's not. There is a thing called "Free Will" that trumps the theory of predestination every time.

Everyday you have a choice to please God or not to please God. The choice is yours. God is not up there making these choices for us.

If you choose to be married that is your choice. If you don't find someone to marry that is also your choice.

Stop asking God to send you a mate and start asking God to help you become the person that He wants you to be. If you do that you will become more attractive to someone who is asking God for the same thing. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

Remarry My Ex-Husband
I was married for 25 years until my ex went through a mid-life crisis. First I read Jim and Sally Conway's book "Women in Mid-life Crisis" and it was a real eye opener. Later I read Dr. John Kappas' book Relationship Strategies and it all came together. I highly recommend reading both books. Rev. Tom Zegan CCHt.

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