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I Hate My Husband
Mia, I am not sure why you are laughing. I am delighted with my husband and in light of the many, many unhappy marriage statements, Graham asked if there were ANY happy wives so I responded that I am a happy wife. My husband and I are best friends and if you have to live with someone this is the way to enjoy it. But if laughing at me helps you, feel free!!! It does not change my feelings nor God's love for me. Have a pleasant life. :)

How To Properly Spank My Kids
I am AMAZED at how people TWIST the subject...Jody used the phrase "push and strike" instead of spank....who said ANYTHING about shoving or pushing????? some people called it "beating"....

A spanking to me is only for direct defiance...I tell them to do it, they don't do it. they KNOW this in advance. I then say calmly...I told you this, you did that, I will have to spank." I spank over clothes telling in advance how many "swats" there will be so it's controlled, not angry. Then I hold them and tell them I want them to learn to obey.

I do not spank for irresponsibility, childish behavior etc. Only for defiance.

GET A GRIP if you think a loving spanking = pushing,shoving, beating, etc.

Caught My Husband Cheating
Love does not hurt? have YOU ever hurt someone you love? Ever yelled at your children or your parents? Ever told a white lie to your spouse or kids or parents? Ever said things you regret? Did that mean you didn't love them? Perfect love does not hurt but we don't live in a perfect world yet. this is a FALLEN world, it has sin. Sinning against someone does not mean you have no love for them, it means your love it imperfect and every human's love is imperfect at this point.

Husband Is Controlling
Hello Deb, It sounds like you've been going through alot. Begin to read the word, and draw closer to God in prayer and in thought. You will find God to be a refuge in the midst of the storm, you will also find God begin to heal your marriage. He will give you peace and unspeakable joy. Be an example to your husband, while lifting him in prayer. You can not change him, but God can! You can do all things through Christ who strengthens you!

Women Useful For Church
Please discuss your concerns with your Pastor. You are supposed to grow and participate in church activities being a chuch member. Let him know how you feel, if things do not change, pray about it and God will direct you, and if need be to another church.
Galatians 3:28
There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

I Have A Miserable Marriage

Hi Jennifer,
I'm sorry to hear what you are going through. I pray that God restores your marriage. Are you guys going to a church, maybe find a married couples group? We find at our lowest point, is when we are closest to God. Put your trust in God. Jeremiah 17:7
"But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in him.
Do you know why blessed is the man that trusts in the Lord? It is because he will never fail you. He will heal your past hurts and restore your marriage, all you have to do is trust in him and lean on him, seek him with all of your heart.

Is My Husband A Christian

Please stand on God's word. 1 Peter 3:1
Wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without words by the behavior of their wives..
Philippiams 4:6
6Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
Put your hope and trust in God, draw close to him by praying and reading the bible. God is in control!

Are Hindus In Heaven
God has extended his forgiveness, through Christ his Son. God could have just forgiven, but why should we? He created us, and created a way to Him, he gave us a free will and now we have to make that choice. It is now up to you and I to choose. Hell was not created for us, but for the Devil. God will not close hell, but he did make a way for us so we would not have to go. We are all going to stand before God one day, for it is "appointed unto man to die once, then the judgement." Please know God does love you, and desires a relationship with you. Ask Him to reveal Himself to you.

Why Start Believing Now

Romans 1:20
For since the creation of the world God's invisible qualities his eternal power and divine nature have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that men are without excuse.

John 14:6
Jesus answered, "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

Acts 17:31 (New International Version)
31For he has set a day when he will judge the world with justice by the man he has appointed. He has given proof of this to all men by raising him from the dead."

Who Is The One True Church
The true church is the one Jesus built! The 1st century church is the true church!

Is Usury A Good Thing
I'm not sure, but in my heart it doesn't feel right. Thank you.

God Speaks Through Prophets
Yes, and they are coming now, out of many nations, kindreds and tongues. But be careful they line up with the word of God.

Unclean Spirit In You
Evil spirits can gain possession in Christians in the flesh and mind.

Steal From God With Tithes
Please! I tithed. You know what happened? I lost my husband to another woman and my home! We are gentile believers. We are not subject to the tithe, only jews(natural). We are to give to help the poor. That is true religion. We are not commanded to tithe in the new testament(contract). We are asked to be cheerful givers. Jesus came to fulfill the law. He is our tithe! Shalom Melinda

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