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What Do People Do In Hell
SUFFERING,Darkness, fire, no oxygen, where "the worms die not" and the flesh is continually eaten. Always to be forever in torment with NO HOPE of ever escaping. That is a very minor picture of THE REAL HELL!! It says in the Bible "the bottomless pit" it is now speculated that the center of the earth is solid, with a molten layer seperating the outer shell from the inner core.. which would then make it just another accurate scientific statement in the Bible written thousands of years before it was discovered.. it also said "He hangs nothingness above the North Star" we found out this century there are no stars or planets above the North Star for millions of light years!!! NOTHINGNESS!! God Rules! Satan drools!

Metal Music Good As A Christian
What about groups like I Am Terrified or I Am Alpha and Omega or For Today? They all proclaim the love and grace of Jesus Christ through their metal music. I Am Terrified uses lyrics like "And we will worship like it's the last time we will!" and "Wash your feet wash your hands and make yourself new for the glory" and "My God is sovereign and strong and His will is ours to live." For Today's vocalist has tracks where he just talks about God and calls Him by name. I Am Alpha and Omega has songs about the second coming and how, no matter what, God is still chasing after them enough though we all as humans born into sin struggle with following Him completely 100% of the time. These people are doing true ministry

Metal Music Good As A Christian
All I'm really saying though is that God doesn't care what kind of music we listen to as long as it honors Him. I think God can use anything, including metal music, to bring others to His grace. Paul became all things to all men. He adapted his teaching to other cultures in order to reach them. Isn't that basically what Christian metal is? A way to reach the lost kids who live in a metal music culture? Why would that make it wrong?

Metal Music Good As A Christian
I think listening to hardcore music is the same dispute of tattoos or circumcision. God told the Israelites to not get tattoos and to circumcise themselves to set them apart from the nearby pagan tribes. But after the grace of God was open to everyone circumcision was no longer necessary because we are to welcome everyone as Christ came to save everyone. So if that's the case, then why can't metal and hardcore music be used to honor God. The metal band Haste the Day has a song with the chorus "You cover the darkest part of me with a look that's sure to set the captives free. With love that the blindest eye will see, You cover the darkest part of me." That's about God and nothing else

Arrested For Praise Music Too Loud
Where in the Bible does it state that music is not allowed in church? One of the bloggers stated this.....that's a new one on Psalms 150

Divorce, Separate Or Lie
No, she isn't younger, 11 months older with kids. Not saying that's good or bad or it justifies anything since she isn't some young hot chick. No top models here, just an ordinary woman that appreciates me.

My request, like most guys are simple. I did not ask for much but what I did ask for my wife was unable or unwilling to give. I gave her my best.

I do love my wife, I have always loved her. I have focused on her since the day we met, i never once looked to the left or to the right.. but there were no wins or they were few and far between.

Am I wrong? Yes. But I admit it feels good to be appreciated every now and then.

BTW.. my gf isn't skinny either but she does have a cute smile.

Divorce, Separate Or Lie
Heh.. My girlfriend's husband? That was funny.. but I don't know whether or not he knows. She does not have a husband.

After repeated attempts I tried to get my wife to see things differently, however I ranked very low on her priority list. Now some may say the enemy has come between us.. Honestly, I think the devil is getting a bad wrap. The enemy didn't tell her not to spend time with me, talk to me, nor sleep in the same room with me, she made those decisions. Fortunately, we did not have an aurgumentive relationship, but I was more alone under the same roof, than I would have been by myself. The woman I married stopped being my wife a looong time ago.

Divorce, Separate Or Lie
Thanks to all that responded. I am not willing to give up years of marriage, nor am I looking to turn my back on my family. I admit, after years of being at the bottom of my wife's priority list.. I began to look at things from a different angle. I have no excuse or justification, frankly, there is none.. but if you knew the extent you may at least understand my point of view. I tried everything that I could to be the best husband, however my wife gave me very little if anything to work with. But now I am perceieved as selfish.. perhaps I am. It is true, I have basically made up my mind. I met someone that is precious to me and I do not want to lose her. It sounds horrible but the cards are on the table and that's what is real to me.

Divorce, Separate Or Lie
All, thanks for your input: I know it is bad. It's a horrible situation to be in. Never thought in a million years I would be in a triangle like this. I am tired of it and it is wearing on me. I need to make a decision fast, lives are impacted and are at stake.. including my own.

Divorce, Separate Or Lie
Thanks for the reply: Yes, I did love and cherish my wife. I worked hard and always provided for our family. For years I asked her, what am I doing? Or not doing? She would always say that it's her, not me. After years of this and many discussions with no improvement.. I changed what I expected and desired from her. We had not been intimate in months prior to me meeting this other person. Then I told her I am done, I want to move on. My wife now admits she took me for granted. I forgive her, but my feelings for her have changed. I love her.. but no longer love her in the way that I used to. I love this other person dearly and I am tired of living in two worlds.

Are Tatoos For Ladies
I'll try and give you the benefit of the doubt. Your problems stem from one of two things. (1) Your trying desperately to sound like a narrator, like others in this blog, of a tremendous biblical production of movies such as Ben Hur, The Ten Commandments, or The King of Kings, which is causing me to have difficulty understanding you. (2) Or, you have this uncanny knack of misunderstanding scripture. Pick one.

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