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Who's The Elect
studying how we become or as some say were predestined to be elect. I keep bumping into scripture that says other wise. Esp. under the l of the tulip which is that of limited atonement. That Jesus only died for a certain few. Just for starters John declared about Jesus "behold the lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world." Jesus died for all but we must come into agreement through faith and trust in Jesus Christ and the finished work on the cross. Some think they have a right to be called the children of God because they were chosen before the foundation of the world. But John 1:12 says "But as many as received Him to them he gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe on His name".

Are Women High Maintenance
I really blame TV since there is too much going on today which their parents raised them very poorly when they were growing up as well. But the problem is that many of them really haven't grown up yet since many of them are very spoiled and selfish which still isn't good enough for them. With the reality shows that they have on TV these days which makes them such Losers too.

Happy Father's Day To All Dads
My father-in-law, Melvin doesn't need any improvement. He's the finest man I'll ever know and I love him like he was my birth father. Never a cross word. He and Mom are the greatest. Ron

Divorce After Twenty Years
Takes courage to ask that. The essence is in "break free".We use those words when we are imprisoned. Persue Christian marriage guidance, get a number of opinions. Get "The five love languages" book and "His needs, her needs" and assess his response. Folks will tell you about a kind, loving and forgiving father for all the other mistakes we have made, but not now. Scripture does not say that we will not be forgiven, unlike those who fail to provide for brothers and sisters in poverty, troubles and in jail. God knows that we live in a fallen, unloving and mad world, and forgiveness and reconciliation is still the same. I bless you with finding the answers you need, even if it's not what you want to hear just yet.

What To Wear To Church
Jesus says to come as you are.I believe that could mean how you dress,it could also mean come with all your problems.Its about having a relationship with Jesus,not what you wear.

Affair With My Old Boyfriend
Beth, first of all you need to understand why you had an affair. You need to go asap to a marriage councelor. I would also recommend that you have a daily devotion. The old boyfriend should move on with his life. Your husband sounds like a good man trying to work through the pain this has caused him.

Tell Daughter About Affair
Thanks for the replys. I have been fasting two meals a day and praying for my wife and daughter. I owe everything that brought me through this to God. Please pray that things go well for us.

Tell Daughter About Affair
What if my daughter ask why my wife divorced me. Do I tell her I caught my wife in an affair?

Tell Daughter About Affair
Thanks for all who have replied. My wife has not cheated on me after we remarried. My daughter is now in her 40s. I do agree that she needs a 1 on 1 with my wife. My wife does not want to share details about what happened. Is my wife right?

Word Of Faith Churches
They are taught that anyone who disagrees with them is the enemy/lost (same as Mormons and other cults). You can't even ask questions in there Sunday School classes. They are heavily indoctrinated in the books of men/women and not the Word of God. Their origins are with Kenyon, Hagin, Copeland, Oral Roberts... and their teachings are New Age, and you can't question their beliefs. They have trusted their eternal souls into the hands of wolves in sheep's clothing. One of their greatest problems is not keeping scripture in context. They take a verse here and a verse there to make up their false teachings, and that's why they can't debate the Word.

My Husband Will Not Work
You should let this guy go.

Drinking Alcohol Moderately
Someone said "anything in moderation is okay." I must disagree. A little crack cocaine, a little arsenic, a little adultery. Cliches can get in the way. Drinking... I think the grape juice argument has trouble just on the basis of refrigeration in the middle east 2000 years ago. Not being drunk seems to be a pretty clear directive. The consequences have been pretty expensive throughout history.

I Just Became Unemployed
Believe me I know it can be tough to lose your job. I am currently in the same situation. I lost my job in January due to the recession as did 25% of the employees who worked with me. Although I've been on several interviews I still have not been hired. At time's it can get depressing but just keep your faith. It will get better, believe it! In the meantime try and make the most of the time you have. I do it by spending more time with my kids. I wish you luck in finding a new job quickly.

About To Marry A Non-Christian
As a pastor and a man, I can tell you that marriages of this sort rarely remain happy. I have good friends that were going to "Change" the non-believer, who wound up quitting God to please the non-believer. Also the Bible states that the wife is to be in subjection to her husband. That is hard for a Christian woman to do with a non-believing husband. He usually (but not always) will try to arrange things to keep her away from her Christian friends and church. Although there are exceptions, this is usually the case. God deserves a complete Christian Family rather than part of a Christian family. I suggest a lot of prayer and Bible study. Then find a Christian man who daily proves his love for God! Prayers for you!

Women With Long Hair
There is only one word to describe my feelings when an older woman cuts her glorious hair. SAD!

Pastor Rod Parsley's Salary
If a Pastor, Priest, Minister etc., can not and will not have full transparency of their true income, then what are they ashamed of? They often preach that if what you are about to do, you would not do with your wife or parent present, then it is wrong. If you are hiding it from them, it is wrong. Well, if they can not and will not openly display their true income, it is wrong. How could such a "man-of-God" live in wealth while even one person is suffering? I suggest that all that "seed" money be sent to organizations such as St. Jude's Children Memorial Hospital or The Shriners where EVERY dime is used towards the benefit of those in need. Where children suffer and ask nothing. Show me your income, I will show you mine.

Can A Woman Be A Pastor
Yes, a woman can, does and should teach. By far, women have taught man much and much by their example. Men and women are equal in God's eye, so why should man say they are not? Why should man judge who is the better? Judgement is God's territory, not ours. I have learned much from men and women, both good and bad. And I have learned much from the examples set by those who did not even realize they were setting one.

Nonforgiving Go To Hell
Salvation is a free gift. All we have to do is accept the free gift by confessing Jesus Christ as Lord. Anything we do after that only has to do with rewards in Heaven and blessings here on earth.

Fiance Borrowing My Money
The right thing to do as a Christian is to hold them accountable to a budget. If your daughter and son-in-law are Christians, consider sending them to a Financial Seminar. You need not feel guilty about not lending them money, especially when you can't afford it. Also, God wants us to give when the need is justifiable. So dont always think you have to lend. If they are trying hard to make a living, take the pressure off them and give and dont ask to be repaid (again if you can afford it). It is not wrong to suggest he ask his own father if they are Christians. If unbelievers are involved, then it is a different issue.

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